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18-12-2012, 07:38 AM
RE: A brief history of Escape Artist...
(17-12-2012 12:37 PM)Escape Artist Wrote:  
(17-12-2012 09:35 AM)earmuffs Wrote:  Fuck the world.
Divorce his useless ass.

It don't matter shit what your family thinks, it don't matter shit what people online think, it don't even matter shit what I think (a very rare case indeed), what matters is that you gotta live with the guy.
You obviously don't love him anymore, he drives you up the wall, he obviously doesn't treat you as an equal partner with respect. I'm sure all he sees you as is an atm and the weekly cleaner. If you wait on guys hands and knees don't expect them to change and complain.
You deserve better, you need better and you should have better.

So I repeat, divorce his useless ass.
Yeah, it's definitely at the point to where I have to go 'round pretending that I'm single in order not to feel miserable. Any efforts he makes at this point, I see as a feeble attempt on his part to hold onto his "ATM" as you put it. He doesn't want to part with the money. It's not that I make tons of money, either - it's just that I've stuck with a job long enough to get certain perks and bonuses and he likes those very much. Dodgy So anything he does now will feel fake and disingenuous.

Currently, my parents and his are trying to help us out of yet another financial jam and we're very busy at my work, but I'm planning to talk to a lawyer as soon as possible in 2013. At least then holidays will be out of the way and I won't have the added stress of a busy work schedule to contend with.

Plus, in regards to the mixed opinions I've been getting, I have to keep in mind that my family is operating out of a totally different worldview than I am. They are no doubt worried about what Sky Daddy thinks of divorce. Wouldn't want to piss him off.
Yea see, if you have to pretend to be single in order not to feel miserable then it's pretty clear you need to kick him out.
He's not gonna change trust me, I know his type.

You shouldn't have to exert yourself and earn these nice bonuses only for him to reap the rewards. And you're right to assume that anything he does now will not because he values you but because he values these nice bonuses.

If you are truly concerned with what your parents think just say you're a protestant, that was a religion created because of divorce. But you really shouldn't worry what they think, like I say, you sister are the one living with the guy.
It's easy for them to say "but surly you can work it all out" when it is not them living with the guy.
This is 2012, not 1950.

All those hours of watching Jeremy Kyle are a waste of time they said..
pfft. Girl_nails

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RE: A brief history of Escape Artist... - earmuffs - 18-12-2012 07:38 AM
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