About the death of my parents: The murder

[lucradis]

Man, you are one strong guy. I don't know how you've not only gotten through this to this point but been active on the forum. Not only active but relatively jovial. I don't truly know you, but I feel like I would like to, you seem to have a strong character.
Like Hamata said, we are here for anything you need man, like anything. Don't be shy, though I doubt you have the capacity for shyness.

[FSM_scot]

Im left speechless after reading that.
I can't say anything that hasn't already been said. I hope that writing about things will help you to deal with this tragedy.
We will be here for you as best we can.
You and your family are in my thoughts.

[ddrew]

(21-12-2011 06:26 PM)lucradis Wrote:  Man, you are one strong guy. I don't know how you've not only gotten through this to this point but been active on the forum. Not only active but relatively jovial. I don't truly know you, but I feel like I would like to, you seem to have a strong character.
Like Hamata said, we are here for anything you need man, like anything. Don't be shy, though I doubt you have the capacity for shyness.

I agree there! .. You mentioned you came face to face with that asshole.. I know you haven't covered what happened yet but damn..

All I know is... if someone were to ever kill my son and I were to come face to face with that individual... I wouldn't care about what happens to me.. I'd want nothing more than to put my hands around that fucker's neck and watch the life drain from his eyes....

[Observer]

Thanks for al the kind words people. There are more things to tell but it's not always easy to see them on screen. I don’t know where my ability to collect damage comes from. I don’t know how long it can last either. Maybe it’s my rational approach to the world.

(21-12-2011 08:41 PM)ddrew Wrote:  I agree there! .. You mentioned you came face to face with that asshole.. I know you haven't covered what happened yet but damn..

All I know is... if someone were to ever kill my son and I were to come face to face with that individual... I wouldn't care about what happens to me.. I'd want nothing more than to put my hands around that fucker's neck and watch the life drain from his eyes....

Well...
I stood eye to eye before I knew who he was. Besides... Violence makes me sick. especially at the moment.

[LadyJane]

Thank you for sharing the story. It is hard to carry so much on one's own, so hopefully as a community we can help a little with this burden. Take care of yourself moment by moment.

I saw this today, I think there is some truth, "If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present."

Of course things are not at peace right now, so far from it. But in each passing moment there is something... Your baby, friends, precious memories.

Stay strong as you already are.

[Piet]

What a nightmare. It frightens me. Can I empathize with your feelings in this situation? All I can say is take care and be strong. And when you want to tell your story in dutch language you are welcome at freethinker.nl.

Piet.

[Filox]

I'm sorry to hear all this man, stay strong, it will get better, sooner or later.

R.I.P. Mr. & Mrs. "The_observer".

[Malleus]

Aw man, you have my deepest sympathy. Life really doesn't make sense sometimes. I can only imagine what you're going through.

I'm very sorry for your loss.