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12-05-2016, 09:12 AM
RE: Apologies, apologies
(12-05-2016 09:08 AM)dancefortwo Wrote:  
(12-05-2016 09:02 AM)JDog554 Wrote:  I am like that too, mostly because I usually feel like I am a burden to whoever I talk to but don't worry. I have yet to see you post or say anything you should be sorry for!

The same to you. Nothing to be sorry for on your part.

It seem like the people who have nothing to apologize for will apologize for everything and the people who should apologize for creating havoc never apologize for a damned thing. It's weird.

I think it's because people who do apologize for nothing usually care a lot hence why they want to apologize while people who don't apologize when they should usually don't care that much.

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12-05-2016, 09:26 AM
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Here in Ireland we overuse the word sorry. Big Grin
http://www.irelandlogue.com/about-irelan...sorry.html

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12-05-2016, 09:38 AM
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(12-05-2016 07:01 AM)CosmicRaven Wrote:  I always feel like apologizing. I don't want to go about making apology threads all the time, though. Laugh out load

I probably haven't done anything wrong to anybody either. It's frustrating. I'll feel like apologizing, then I won't apologize because I haven't done anything wrong, and then I'll feel bad about not apologizing. Blink

Trust me, if I apologized as much I get the urge to do so, I would apologize every day to almost everyone.

Well, whatever. I just needed to get that off my chest.

Canadian by any chance?
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12-05-2016, 09:56 AM
RE: Apologies, apologies
(12-05-2016 09:38 AM)Mr. Boston Wrote:  
(12-05-2016 07:01 AM)CosmicRaven Wrote:  I always feel like apologizing. I don't want to go about making apology threads all the time, though. Laugh out load

I probably haven't done anything wrong to anybody either. It's frustrating. I'll feel like apologizing, then I won't apologize because I haven't done anything wrong, and then I'll feel bad about not apologizing. Blink

Trust me, if I apologized as much I get the urge to do so, I would apologize every day to almost everyone.

Well, whatever. I just needed to get that off my chest.

Canadian by any chance?

No. I live in a state that borders Canada. Is that close enough?
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12-05-2016, 09:58 AM
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Sorry for your troubles. Big Grin

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12-05-2016, 09:59 AM
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We love you you sorry thing!
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12-05-2016, 10:20 AM
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Well......Blush




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12-05-2016, 12:44 PM
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(12-05-2016 07:01 AM)CosmicRaven Wrote:  I always feel like apologizing. I don't want to go about making apology threads all the time, though. Laugh out load

I probably haven't done anything wrong to anybody either. It's frustrating. I'll feel like apologizing, then I won't apologize because I haven't done anything wrong, and then I'll feel bad about not apologizing. Blink

Trust me, if I apologized as much I get the urge to do so, I would apologize every day to almost everyone.

Well, whatever. I just needed to get that off my chest.

Warning: This is a criticism for that kind of behavior.... not you personally.

Since this isn't in the support thread I'll be frank.... I see constant apologies from some as a sign of pass-aggressive attention whoring. Now, I'm sure there is a mental diagnosis for constantly apologising for living but I don't know what it is.

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12-05-2016, 01:32 PM
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(12-05-2016 12:44 PM)Heatheness Wrote:  
(12-05-2016 07:01 AM)CosmicRaven Wrote:  I always feel like apologizing. I don't want to go about making apology threads all the time, though. Laugh out load

I probably haven't done anything wrong to anybody either. It's frustrating. I'll feel like apologizing, then I won't apologize because I haven't done anything wrong, and then I'll feel bad about not apologizing. Blink

Trust me, if I apologized as much I get the urge to do so, I would apologize every day to almost everyone.

Well, whatever. I just needed to get that off my chest.

Warning: This is a criticism for that kind of behavior.... not you personally.

Since this isn't in the support thread I'll be frank.... I see constant apologies from some as a sign of pass-aggressive attention whoring. Now, I'm sure there is a mental diagnosis for constantly apologising for living but I don't know what it is.

In some cases, yeah.
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12-05-2016, 02:10 PM
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Once, I did something at work - I kind of lost my shit on a guy, actually - and though I thought the guy really did deserve to have someone verbally go ape-shit-crazy on him, I felt very uncomfortable about what I had said. (A somewhat vague, possible threat-like wish. Dodgy )

So, a day or so later, after all had calmed down, I went and formally apologized to him - with everyone around who had witnessed the original mayhem. I sincerely offered my handshake with no hard feelings. The guy refused my apology. What the actual fuck?!? I felt like shit! Blink

The guy had transferred a couple months after that incident but, I still felt like shit for quite some time, even though one of the "witnesses" told me the guy was just trying to make me feel bad and look bad. A couple of years later, I found out that this was this person's "behavior pattern"! He would badger people until they lost it, continually make them feel worse and make them appear to be "the problem" - he'd either get them fired or they would just feel so shitty, they'd quit. This fucker moved up in management pretty quickly. Hmm.

Well, that's my story. People fucking with people, who fuck with people, fucking with people.

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