Breaking up.

[itsacow]

(02-09-2012 01:44 AM)Atothetheist Wrote:  If she was dumb, I would have never even fucking considered her to date, let alone give her the opprotunity to share chromosomes with my child.

First off, evaluate: Do you really want to break up with her? If so, is it because she is unattractive, god-awefully stupid, or you are gay? These questions are very important.

Second: Predict: How the hell is this break up going to affect HER? Don't be fucking selfish and only think about you, step into her shoes and see it from her perspective. How will breaking up affect her? How will it affect your friends, or her friends? Or your rep?

I am assuming you got "Jiggy" with her, so how is that going to affect the way you see her.

Third: Second thinking: Are you sure you want to to this? What if it causes a shit-storm? Is being with her that boring/bad that I would risk this whole dynamic?

Fourth: Execute: Say it gently, and prepare to run.

As my good friend Barney Stinson used to say: Lemon Law, use it.

So here is the situation and why I have come to breaking up with her.

She moved her awhile ago, never saw her before until she showed up at work with her little brother needing a ride home. So, l thought I would be nice and drive her home. Apparently she had walked 5 miles to go swimming. So I did and we talked for a bit at her house and we laughed a lot

The next time we met our relationship advanced quickly and she wanted to have sex. As a guy, I felt like I had just won the lottery. We did not.

The next day we had it planned but we lacked certain items. So then I planned to break up with her because I do not want to take advantage of her.

1. She is not the sharpest tool in the shed, and I fear she may be a slut. (She had already done it and was 15. Also, she was held back in 8th grade, which I did not know was possible.)

2. I doubt it will affect her much as she seems to be quite... promiscuous. If I do not break up with her my reputation with my friends will be hurt more. Her reputation would also be hurt, as she tried to have sex with me on our second "date".

3. I have already thought of that, and I am prepared for the worst. Her friends already hate me and my friends, so it probably will just be as usual.

So... yea... That is about it. Hopefully my humiliation will be over after this post.