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25-01-2013, 02:48 PM
Brothels.
In the 60s in this country, brothels were pretty grotty places. There might be one woman working from a single room with a sink for the man to wash his penis before sex. Afterwards was optional.How thing have changed!

The modern brothel is predominantly heterosexual, so I will be dealing exclusively with such, while gay brothels certainly do exist.

The pros and cons.
There are many arguments supporting the social value of brothels and I shall touch on but a few.
It is argued that brothels serve to support some men who would choose rape and violence if such were not readily available and statistics, twisted as statistics can be, seem to verify this. Another claim to fame is that brothels provide sexual services that are abhorrent to some wives and lovers. For example probably all sex workers provide fellatio, where a condom is utilized;fewer also offer anal sex and other so called deviations. This may be well and good providing the husband has severed all sexual relations with his spouse.
There is also the issue of men unable to find a wife or partner, for various reasons, including some form of physical disability. The recent movie The Sessions dealt with the case, based on fact, of an almost totally paralysed man who sought penetrative sexual gratification,via a therapist, and the issue is dealt with quite sensitively. Even his priest blessed his decision. Sex, simply for the fun of variation,lust, and orgasm(s) is also cited as a sane reason to indulge.

Far removed from the brothel of old, today's modern version may contain spa, sauna, video porn, gym equipment,cock tail bar, mouth wash, listerine, exotic oils and even little blue pills. As of old, the major feature,is of course, the ladies.

It is often claimed that many sex workers dislike their work and it is simply just a means to survive: often extremely well.
I really feel this claim is probably exagerated, while obviously applicable, relevant to some particularly obnoxious clients.
The punter, in my estimate, can expect 90% plus of the ladies to be reasonably friendly, contrived or otherwise, with a very small percentage being absolute bitches. There are Mums, bisexuals, enjoyers, entrepreneurs,lesbians,artists, intellectuals, mystics and many more. I once had a friend who was bi-sexual, a goth,and Door Bitch. She also regularly attended a B/D & S.M.club. A kind person, she would pick up a dead cat from the side of the road and bury it.

There is, of course a down side to brothels,even with those pills, and I have already indicated some of these factors.
Quite often such places are owned by under world figures so corruption such a sex slavery, hard drugs, extortion etc may play a part in some cases, a factor which might deter some clients. Sexual slavery, in particular, is an extremely nasty business.
It is very difficult to overcome the huge problem of STDs (sexually transmitted diseases) which always seem to be on the rise. Even where condoms are used there can be breakages,whether during fellatio or sexual intercourse. Some sex workers do not seem to worry so much about un protected cunnilingus for themselves, or the client. Such, for the male, can provide a great many oral STDs, not to mention warts on the tongue.
Also the condom can always give way to the mighty dollar, when it comes to 'in house' bartering, and even this isn't always neccessary. Some three decades ago, a friend, a very good looking young professional wrestler was provided unasked for analingus. Hope the next client was a fan!

WEll, just a few tit bits to ponder over. Essentially we all have to work out our own behaviour and to be fore warned is to be best prepared
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25-01-2013, 03:46 PM
RE: Brothels.
Yes
Fair enough.
Consider
Was there a question?

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25-01-2013, 03:52 PM
RE: Brothels.
(25-01-2013 03:46 PM)DLJ Wrote:  Yes
Fair enough.
Consider
Was there a question?
No real question?
Just a general idea relevant to the ins and outs of the generalities....... Cool
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25-01-2013, 04:18 PM
RE: Brothels.
(25-01-2013 03:52 PM)Mr Woof Wrote:  ins and outs Laughat

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25-01-2013, 04:21 PM
RE: Brothels.
Thought you'd get my drift............... Censored
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26-01-2013, 01:46 PM
RE: Brothels.
(25-01-2013 04:21 PM)Mr Woof Wrote:  Thought you'd get my drift............... Censored
If I might elaborate on D.L.J s brief comments.

It is common practice to present an argument.........blah,blah, blah... I'm right, you disagree, so your'e wrong.
Very hard line and hardly Justified.

The above piece was written in order to encourage some general debate;some of my flippant remarks may have discouraged this.


What I suppose I am really suggesting, using brothels perhaps as a societal microcosm, is that society, in general, is gripped by greed, exploitation, egoism, fantasy, and a consumerism bordering on lunacy. The magical "economy" is seen to erase all this.

Perhaps we are hard wired to act as we do. I just don't know.
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26-01-2013, 03:00 PM
RE: Brothels.
Thing is, there wasn't really anything to disagree with. You gave a balanced view.... so... you do know.

Also, there are probably not so many on this site who have first hand experience so if you want responses you may have to move away from the implied questions of:

What do you think legalised / controlled brothels / prostitution?

to a wider question e.g.:

Is this still exploitation?

Consider

I have no comment, btw. I get my girls delivered, nowadays.

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26-01-2013, 03:01 PM
RE: Brothels.
Ever since I saw "Cathouse" on HBO back in 2003, I've wanted to go there.

Just throwin' that out there. Tongue

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26-01-2013, 03:04 PM
RE: Brothels.
(26-01-2013 03:00 PM)DLJ Wrote:  Thing is, there wasn't really anything to disagree with. You gave a balanced view.... so... you do know.

Also, there are probably not so many on this site who have first hand experience so if you want responses you may have to move away from the implied questions of:

What do you think legalised / controlled brothels / prostitution?

to a wider question e.g.:

Is this still exploitation?

Consider

I have no comment, btw. I get my girls delivered, nowadays.

True story.
Well I could say I got it all from my big brother (Randy Bro) but I wont! Wink
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26-01-2013, 03:12 PM
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I think brothels should be more widely available, as well as -very- well regulated (as for the health and safety reasons you listed above) They provide a service that, lets face it, is needed.

A very interesting read thank you. Smile

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