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23-02-2015, 09:09 PM
RE: Closure
(23-02-2015 09:00 PM)Anjele Wrote:  It hurts and it sucks...been there, done that...hated it. Get the angry music fired up...anger can be a great motivator...




I could like this ten times. I could have written that song.

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23-02-2015, 09:10 PM
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(23-02-2015 09:09 PM)Nurse Wrote:  
(23-02-2015 09:00 PM)Anjele Wrote:  It hurts and it sucks...been there, done that...hated it. Get the angry music fired up...anger can be a great motivator...




I could like this ten times. I could have written that song.

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23-02-2015, 09:52 PM
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For valentine's day, I sent my sis some Shari's Berries. This is her 1st VD without someone since 1994. I wanted her to know that someone was thinking about her. Since I don't have your address, this is the best I can do. Take care.


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23-02-2015, 09:56 PM
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In Colorado, your husband's lawyer would already be in deep trouble. He cannot, ethically, say anything that discourages you from getting your own lawyer and, he would have to inform you that he represents your husband only and he will not do anything to protect you. I'm pretty sure the rules are the same in Alabama. In fact, Alabama is proud of the fact that they were the first state to get tough ethics rules back in the late 1800s.

You should ask your former boyfriend to help you through this. There is nothing wrong with that kind of attorney-client relationship and most important, he knows you. He knows how your husband's lawyer may attempt to screw you and he knows how fucking vulnerable you are right now.

For many years, I charged $550/hour to hand out this kind of advice and I'm giving it to you free [because everybody on this forum, including me, loves you. You've been through enough fucking pain and it's time you recognized that and stood up to this manipulative cocksucker.] Take my advice, please.
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23-02-2015, 10:05 PM
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By the way, lady, I don't want to keep ragging on you but I have seen women in your position more times than I can remember. The husband takes advantage of them and the wife doesn't really mind because she is convinced that the divorce is primarily her fault. That is bullshit. But if you let this peckerneck walk all over you at the outset, it gets very very hard to make things right later on and you owe it to your son to get fair treatment.
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24-02-2015, 01:12 AM
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(23-02-2015 08:14 PM)GirlyMan Wrote:  I sure as shit would never waive my rights to legal counsel and representation.

This! Don't let him walk over you.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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24-02-2015, 02:08 AM
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(23-02-2015 09:52 PM)The Organic Chemist Wrote:  For valentine's day, I sent my sis some Shari's Berries. This is her 1st VD without someone since 1994. I wanted her to know that someone was thinking about her. Since I don't have your address, this is the best I can do. Take care.


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Sadcryface this was my first vd completely alone since 2002. In 2003 I had a first date, and 2004 I had my now estranged husband. But! I did have a coworker give me a rainbow dash VDay card, and my son packed a heart filled with skittles in my suitcase. Not an anatomical heart, mind you, but a cute v day heart, he's only six.

Chocolate covered strawberries - they're fucking awesome. Sadcryface

I'm really too drunk to respond with much more coherency at this point. Yay divorce. It's the true drunk diet - can't eat worth shit but you sure can drink like a fish. Dodgy

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24-02-2015, 03:58 AM
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Lawyer up! Now! Damnit! I can smell a big load of shit coming your way. Facepalm

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24-02-2015, 05:23 AM
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(24-02-2015 02:08 AM)Nurse Wrote:  
(23-02-2015 09:52 PM)The Organic Chemist Wrote:  This is her 1st VD without someone since 1994. I wanted her to know that someone was thinking about her.

Sadcryface this was my first vd completely alone since 2002.

Hopefully you can both get a shot or something to clear that up.

Oh...wait...you're talking about Valentines Day. Never mind.

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24-02-2015, 06:39 AM
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(24-02-2015 05:23 AM)Can_of_Beans Wrote:  
(24-02-2015 02:08 AM)Nurse Wrote:  Sadcryface this was my first vd completely alone since 2002.

Hopefully you can both get a shot or something to clear that up.

Oh...wait...you're talking about Valentines Day. Never mind.

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I thought it as I typed it. Tongue

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