Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
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14-03-2016, 05:09 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 10:18 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  
(14-03-2016 05:27 AM)Heatheness Wrote:  I have no idea what you are talking about. I posted a "heads-up" for people who may be on their work computer because I have no control over what others post and wouldn't want to get anyone fired or reprimanded because they open the wrong thing. That's all.

I think I might have been misconstrued.

This wasn't aimed at you, since you weren't even here when that happened. There was a time once when we would talk about sex freely and openly and some people didn't like that because we had minors or because all the sexy talk was leaking out into "serious" conversation and some people were also worried about how Seth is represented by this forum.

So, it was decided that the Intimacy and Relationships section would be the only place where we could talk openly about sex, but in order to be able to post in it, you had to send in your ID to prove that you're over 18. Not many people were willing to do that so inevitably, the sex talk died out.

As I said back then, the whole issue was rather silly and I didn't agree with what I thought was an unfittingly prude approach for a free thinking forum, but when Seth was contacted he thought we would start posting nude pictures of ourselves and he flipped (or at least that's how it seemed to me).

I just knew that someday the sex talk would come back and now I hope it won't be an issue.

What I'm trying to say is, I was against the whole idea of a special area for adult talk, this wasn't about criticizing your thread and asking for it to be moved or anything, quite the opposite. With that decision back then we were made to feel like we were some kind of perverts for wanting to talk about sex and that is why I don't feel entirely comfortable talking about it out in the open. I really hope this won't happen again.

Okay, I'm home now and on my computer. I did not take offense in any way I just didn't understand. If I posted something against the rules then I should be notified early so we can delete it or move it or whatever. We talk sex stuff in other threads so I didn't think it would be an issue to talk about what turns you on but if it is so-be-it. To be honest I thought we were all adult here. Did not know that younger people were here. The other fo's I visit have a section for the junior members and the adults have the run of the forum. If that's reversed here, then it is.

I'm a very sexual person so sex is on my mind 24/7 but I can edit it out (not as much fun but oh well). I did not know there was an adult section (please point me there) but I find it odd that you have to send in your ID since even porn sites don't require that, just some age questions and a disclaimer but again not my job to determine this or monitor it.

I come here to have fun, if I get an education on non fun things as well that's a bonus. I can live without sex on this fo or cussing or whatever. Just let me know. I simply wanted to warn others that if they were surfing at work it could be dicey. No hurt feelings (feelings??? what are those? Big Grin )

I can't imagine that anything here could be worse than the inappropriate jokes thread. Nope, just couldn't. Do you ban the kiddies from that, because I would? Just sayin'.

Each to their own. No worries.

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14-03-2016, 05:20 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 05:09 PM)Heatheness Wrote:  The other fo's I visit have a section for the junior members and the adults have the run of the forum. If that's reversed here, then it is.

You're cheating on us with another forum? Multiple forums, even? Gasp
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14-03-2016, 05:40 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 05:20 PM)Aliza Wrote:  
(14-03-2016 05:09 PM)Heatheness Wrote:  The other fo's I visit have a section for the junior members and the adults have the run of the forum. If that's reversed here, then it is.

You're cheating on us with another forum? Multiple forums, even? Gasp

Nah, just FB and okay, one other sometimes, maybe an extra one or three... Tongue

Mostly not. Sad

But if I can't talk sex here I will be. Smile


and I'll just slip this in here real quiet-like, I have a thing for men's hands. Yep, nice manly strong or well defined hands make my motor rrrrrrrrrrr.... My fantasies run amuck, sometimes to the point of total distraction. It borders on a fetish. I'll stop here so I don't get in trouble. *le sigh*

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14-03-2016, 05:42 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 05:40 PM)Heatheness Wrote:  
(14-03-2016 05:20 PM)Aliza Wrote:  You're cheating on us with another forum? Multiple forums, even? Gasp

Nah, just FB and okay, one other sometimes, maybe an extra one or three... Tongue

Mostly not. Sad

But if I can't talk sex here I will be. Smile


and I'll just slip this in here real quiet-like, I have a thing for men's hands. Yep, nice manly strong or well defined hands make my motor rrrrrrrrrrr.... My fantasies run amuck, sometimes to the point of total distraction. It borders on a fetish. *le sigh*

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14-03-2016, 05:43 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 05:09 PM)Heatheness Wrote:  
(14-03-2016 10:18 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  I think I might have been misconstrued.

This wasn't aimed at you, since you weren't even here when that happened. There was a time once when we would talk about sex freely and openly and some people didn't like that because we had minors or because all the sexy talk was leaking out into "serious" conversation and some people were also worried about how Seth is represented by this forum.

So, it was decided that the Intimacy and Relationships section would be the only place where we could talk openly about sex, but in order to be able to post in it, you had to send in your ID to prove that you're over 18. Not many people were willing to do that so inevitably, the sex talk died out.

As I said back then, the whole issue was rather silly and I didn't agree with what I thought was an unfittingly prude approach for a free thinking forum, but when Seth was contacted he thought we would start posting nude pictures of ourselves and he flipped (or at least that's how it seemed to me).

I just knew that someday the sex talk would come back and now I hope it won't be an issue.

What I'm trying to say is, I was against the whole idea of a special area for adult talk, this wasn't about criticizing your thread and asking for it to be moved or anything, quite the opposite. With that decision back then we were made to feel like we were some kind of perverts for wanting to talk about sex and that is why I don't feel entirely comfortable talking about it out in the open. I really hope this won't happen again.

Okay, I'm home now and on my computer. I did not take offense in any way I just didn't understand. If I posted something against the rules then I should be notified early so we can delete it or move it or whatever. We talk sex stuff in other threads so I didn't think it would be an issue to talk about what turns you on but if it is so-be-it. To be honest I thought we were all adult here. Did not know that younger people were here. The other fo's I visit have a section for the junior members and the adults have the run of the forum. If that's reversed here, then it is.

I'm a very sexual person so sex is on my mind 24/7 but I can edit it out (not as much fun but oh well). I did not know there was an adult section (please point me there) but I find it odd that you have to send in your ID since even porn sites don't require that, just some age questions and a disclaimer but again not my job to determine this or monitor it.

I come here to have fun, if I get an education on non fun things as well that's a bonus. I can live without sex on this fo or cussing or whatever. Just let me know. I simply wanted to warn others that if they were surfing at work it could be dicey. No hurt feelings (feelings??? what are those? Big Grin )

I can't imagine that anything here could be worse than the inappropriate jokes thread. Nope, just couldn't. Do you ban the kiddies from that, because I would? Just sayin'.

Each to their own. No worries.

We have kids in their early teens here, 12 I think is the youngest. Teens get in trouble for being atheist, some even get kicked out in the streets. We want to be a safe place.

So for explicit sexual talk we have a special section. Not that it's really necessary - the web is full of sex and anyone can find anything they want at any time. But having 12 year olds welcome means that we need to keep it clean - and if everyone puts in their two bits as to what is and isn't clean enough, the whole thing is rendered ineffective.

So, if you want to talk about clearly sexual things, there is a place for that. Let admin know you want to go there.

If you think something is too sexual, report it.

This thread per se is not sexual, but it can spiral that way. So it's being watched.

Few things are enforced online, but pedo related items and intellectual property theft are.

We don't want to give some fundie nitwits opportunity to go after Seth. Whether they would succeed or not, he doesn't need the headache, expense and waste of time.

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14-03-2016, 07:46 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
I'd rather see it deleted than die because people were afraid to post for fear of rule breaking. If the mods are watching, just zap it away. Thx

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14-03-2016, 08:29 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
I'm hoping that people can use a little restraint, 'cuz I'm going to post some hand pics. Gasp
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14-03-2016, 08:31 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
Intelligence and humor. Nothing is better out in the public than to find somebody who knows, just knows and you can flirt and play with words, and both of you know it will not go past that day. No touching, just that interplay, the flash of humor in her eyes, a genuine laugh. I think I'm funny; she subsequently just puts me in my place.
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14-03-2016, 08:51 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 06:58 AM)izel Wrote:  Mustache Laughat

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14-03-2016, 08:56 PM
RE: Confessions: What Turns You On? (possible nsfw)
(14-03-2016 08:29 PM)Fireball Wrote:  I'm hoping that people can use a little restraint, 'cuz I'm going to post some hand pics. Gasp

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