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17-11-2015, 08:16 AM
RE: Death threat
(17-11-2015 07:51 AM)Aliza Wrote:  Buy him a case of decent beer, bring it over and offer another formal apology. I wouldn't stay to have the beer with him because "you're on your way to meet a woman for a date," or something. If that doesn't smooth it over, then I'd be concerned that you might actually be dealing with a nut-job.

I considered it, but I don't know if he drinks. Also he doesn't deserve it.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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17-11-2015, 08:27 AM
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Glad you're not dead. Yet.

It was just a fucking apple man, we're sorry okay? Please stop the madness Laugh out load
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17-11-2015, 08:31 AM
RE: Death threat
(17-11-2015 08:16 AM)morondog Wrote:  
(17-11-2015 07:51 AM)Aliza Wrote:  Buy him a case of decent beer, bring it over and offer another formal apology. I wouldn't stay to have the beer with him because "you're on your way to meet a woman for a date," or something. If that doesn't smooth it over, then I'd be concerned that you might actually be dealing with a nut-job.

I considered it, but I don't know if he drinks. Also he doesn't deserve it.

You're right, he was a total dick. But, at this point, it's about smoothing things over so you can all go on and live a peaceful existence. Personally, I would just let things be. Don't do anything else. You keep picking at this thing and you are going to make it worse.

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17-11-2015, 08:43 AM
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Would love to leave it. Have to make certain that it's closed though, because of parents. If my father finds out about this and I haven't already talked to the guy and made things good then he's going to cause another incident. Also for myself I want to talk to the guy. I've run away from my fears a few times and it messed me up. Now I will rather face them head on. I'm convinced now that I've established that he's not a fake identity or some kind of criminal, that he's just going to bluster or at most try an assault, it still makes me nervous because I'm not a confrontational guy but I'm no longer super worried that he's homicidal. Also if he were to try something I'm confident I could beat the shit out of him unarmed - my fear was if he was to bring a weapon and (having claimed to be an ex killer) that he would be unafraid to use it.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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17-11-2015, 08:43 AM
RE: Death threat
(17-11-2015 08:14 AM)morondog Wrote:  
(17-11-2015 08:00 AM)yakherder Wrote:  If he were willing to go as far as killing, he probably would have also been willing to vandalize your car or something, not just do some passive aggressive bullshit like blocking it in. Next time he makes a threat, eat his dog Tongue

Yeah... you're right. I'm not being super rational about this myself. At the same time this is a guy I don't know from Adam. I've actually done a bit of google-snooping and established that he owns a legit business close by, and has done for decades, which makes me feel better. A guy who's spent years building a business isn't gonna risk it for a parking space. 99 to 1 he was just being a total dickhead.

Just because he owns a business doesn't mean he's not Hobo

I understand emotions running high now. When I first moved to Cali, I had a neighbor living across the hall from me who was a total douchebag. He was all up in my shit since he clearly had nothing better to do. I remember calling my brother and venting and his response was "Did you tell him to go fuck himself yet?" And I wanted to--bad. But I also knew I had to live there and coexist with this asshole. So I tried my best to keep my cool and stay away from him. I know it's hard but you've got to do your best to stay calm and act rationally so you don't end up making this situation worse.

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17-11-2015, 08:51 AM
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(17-11-2015 08:43 AM)jennybee Wrote:  I know it's hard but you've got to do your best to stay calm and act rationally so you don't end up making this situation worse.

I'm trying Sadcryface

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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17-11-2015, 08:58 AM
RE: Death threat
(17-11-2015 08:43 AM)morondog Wrote:  Would love to leave it. Have to make certain that it's closed though, because of parents. If my father finds out about this and I haven't already talked to the guy and made things good then he's going to cause another incident. Also for myself I want to talk to the guy. I've run away from my fears a few times and it messed me up. Now I will rather face them head on. I'm convinced now that I've established that he's not a fake identity or some kind of criminal, that he's just going to bluster or at most try an assault, it still makes me nervous because I'm not a confrontational guy but I'm no longer super worried that he's homicidal. Also if he were to try something I'm confident I could beat the shit out of him unarmed - my fear was if he was to bring a weapon and (having claimed to be an ex killer) that he would be unafraid to use it.

But continuing to pick at it is making it worse. If it was about facing your fear, you've done that already by trying to smooth things over with this nut job. Continuing to fuck around with this crazy fuck is asking for trouble.

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17-11-2015, 09:04 AM
RE: Death threat
Dude, the only reason it's not "closed" is because you're keeping it open. Any move you make from here on out is probably going to elicit a negative response. You remind me of me when I like a female type so much, and even though I know perfectly well she doesn't think of me in the same way, I can't stop gushing. I can't stop myself from saying "one more thing", because in my mind if she hears this great speech I've cooked up in my head for the past several days, surely THIS time she'll understand and fall in love with me. Bullshit! She hasn't thought of me in days! This guy's emotion was spent the night he came home from a hard day at his business when he saw some Asshole parked in his parking spot! I would have said all kinds of shit as I was moving my car so I could let that fucking prick move his car from MY parking space. I went back in the house, complained online, watched some porn, smoked a bowl, and everything is great again. Until the next night I get home from a hard day at my business and this fucking Asshat from the other night is leaving long-winded whiny notes on my door complaining that he's unhappy that I was pissed that HE parked in MY parking space that I have to pay to use!

You've gotta let it go, Dog. All you can do at this point is chill out and let it go. If you're so worried about your dad, don't tell your dad. Plain and simple. Let it go, friend.

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17-11-2015, 09:06 AM
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(17-11-2015 08:58 AM)jennybee Wrote:  But continuing to pick at it is making it worse. If it was about facing your fear, you've done that already by trying to smooth things over with this nut job. Continuing to fuck around with this crazy fuck is asking for trouble.

As far as he's concerned there's been one incident - Saturday night. I've been doing my nut but he's been *fine*, the bastard. I'd love to leave it, cool off and so forth, but I'm on a time limit and if I do I won't be able to force myself to act anyway. Please understand. It's like finding out that my parents are living next door to a terrorist. It makes even going over to their place stressful. I can't continue like that. I'd rather get everything out in the open and clear the air in one go. If he turns out to actually be that crazy, so much the better to get it known quickly and hopefully get him kicked out.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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17-11-2015, 09:08 AM
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(17-11-2015 09:04 AM)Erxomai Wrote:  Until the next night I get home from a hard day at my business and this fucking Asshat from the other night is leaving long-winded whiny notes on my door complaining that he's unhappy that I was pissed that HE parked in MY parking space that I have to pay to use!

He could have totally gone ballistic without a threat to kill - a threat which he took the effort to reinforce. Fuck him.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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