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08-05-2017, 06:42 PM
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08-05-2017, 07:21 PM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
(08-05-2017 06:42 PM)KUSA Wrote:  No matter what positive things happen, they are always countered by multiple negative things.

I feel like I'm treading water in the middle of the ocean just struggling to not to drown.

I feel like I'm walking on thin ice and it's cracking.

Why does shit keep dumping on me? It never ends.

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08-05-2017, 07:27 PM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
(08-05-2017 06:42 PM)KUSA Wrote:  No matter what positive things happen, they are always countered by multiple negative things.

I feel like I'm treading water in the middle of the ocean just struggling to not to drown.

I feel like I'm walking on thin ice and it's cracking.

Why does shit keep dumping on me? It never ends.

I felt that way last year. Hug

Sometimes life has a way of just repeatedly kicking our asses.

If you ever want or need to talk, shoot me a pm.

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But as if to knock me down, reality came around
And without so much as a mere touch, cut me into little pieces

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08-05-2017, 07:33 PM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
The worst part is life is nothing but unsolvable problems....

It never gets better. At least... Not for me anyway, hope you have a better time of it dude.

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08-05-2017, 07:46 PM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
*hugs* It sucks when negative things happen, especially when they keep happening. What helps me when these things happen is not to look at it as a system of checks and balances (i.e. a positive thing happens, then a negative thing offsets it). Instead, focus on the positive things, focus on the good things in your life, those things are their own category and have nothing to do with the negative. Sometimes focusing on the positive things in your life, helps to lessen the negative.

When bad things happen, I also find being proactive helps. What can I do to make the situation better? Who can I lean on? What can I do to better weather this storm? What can I do to get in better control of this situation?

I also think if you feel like you're struggling not to drown/walking on thin ice it can be helpful to talk to a therapist. Sometimes talking things out with a neutral party really helps to process things.

Anyway, just some ideas. I'm sorry you are going through some rough times. You can always pm me if you need a friend to talk to. I think the most important thing to realize is that you are not alone and you have a lot of people who care about you both irl and on here.
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08-05-2017, 07:59 PM (This post was last modified: 10-05-2017 08:38 AM by KUSA.)
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08-05-2017, 09:08 PM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
(08-05-2017 07:59 PM)KUSA Wrote:  I appreciate everyone's support here. I wish I could discuss the nature of what kicking me down but I just can't this time.

I am seeing a therapist but there's only so much they can do. There are so many things that are out of my control.

I know the feeling. Hopefully it will get better, soon. Sometimes, it just takes some time to adjust- with that, I'm hoping it isn't a life-threatening problem, because adjustment there is not possible. (bro-hug)
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08-05-2017, 11:58 PM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
(08-05-2017 07:59 PM)KUSA Wrote:  I appreciate everyone's support here. I wish I could discuss the nature of what kicking me down but I just can't this time.

I am seeing a therapist but there's only so much they can do. There are so many things that are out of my control.

Here, take a strong, german Hug

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09-05-2017, 12:18 AM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
Hug Sorry amigo. We care about you, don't be a stranger. Sometimes it helps just to talk about stuff, or if you can't talk about it just to have a friend's hand on your shoulder.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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09-05-2017, 12:39 AM
RE: Life is nothing but problems
(08-05-2017 07:59 PM)KUSA Wrote:  I appreciate everyone's support here. I wish I could discuss the nature of what kicking me down but I just can't this time.

I am seeing a therapist but there's only so much they can do. There are so many things that are out of my control.

Hi KUSA,

Sorry to hear that you are having it so rough.

The thing with problems, is that they tend to come together, one leading to another. I've been down this road, and at some point we have to switch off and kind of let stuff wash over us. That is where therapy and good counselling can work, helping us to hold our ground.

This forum would be a good place to hold onto, lots of firm friends on your side.

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