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25-11-2013, 08:29 AM
RE: Enough is enough
1:34 "The days when domestic violence was something that happened behind closed doors and was no one else's business are long gone, It's everyone's business.

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25-11-2013, 01:12 PM
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(24-11-2013 03:27 PM)LostandInsecure Wrote:  I am still at my mom's, but will be on the way home in a few hours. He's not getting to me in a way that means I would ever go back to him or that I would ever let him hurt me physically again. The baby thing really gets to me emotionally though. Is he going to love this woman and treat her right? Is he going to be there for this baby? If so, what makes them better than us? What makes them a family worth keeping together? Was it really that he just hated me and outside our marriage he's actually this great guy? Is there something wrong with me? Am I unlovable? Did I not deserve to be treated right? Did I not deserve to be loved or to be happy? I know it sounds stupid but I can't stop thinking about it.

It sounds to me that you are looking for a reason to blame yourself for the relationship going sour. You need to stop that. You left him for the perfectly valid reason that he was a horrible husband too you. How he treats this new girl is irrelevant.
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25-11-2013, 01:16 PM
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Man that's a tight spot. Something I've noticed and slowly coming to terms with: You cannot win against god.

Forget your mom and your ex. You're really doing battle with god. No amount of logic and reason will work. No explanation, no appeal to your well being and feelings, no nothing! They'll hear everything you say and the first words to fall out their mouths will be, "But God...". Thus, YOU CANNOT WIN AGAINST GOD!

8000 years before Jesus, the Egyptian god Horus said, "I am the way, the truth, the life."
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28-11-2013, 01:37 AM
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I broke off contact with my biological father because I couldn't take the emotional abuse from his (at the time) second wife. I literally didn't see or talk to him the entire time I was in middle or high school, and it was probably one of the best decisions I ever made. I wasn't going to deal with her shit anymore, and my father chose her over his continued contact with me; his lose.

Turns out she was cheating on him too, so there ya go. Undecided

Sorry I don't have anything more constructive than that to offer you, other than you can (and sometimes need to) cut off contact with those that hurt you; family included.

Stay safe, and I hope you find peace.
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28-11-2013, 01:51 AM
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Thanks guys. Tonight I think I will just have some drinks and forget it all.

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28-11-2013, 01:58 AM
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(28-11-2013 01:51 AM)LostandInsecure Wrote:  Thanks guys. Tonight I think I will just have some drinks and forget it all.

Add me to your drunk dial list Wink

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28-11-2013, 03:10 AM
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(28-11-2013 01:51 AM)LostandInsecure Wrote:  Thanks guys. Tonight I think I will just have some drinks and forget it all.

Booze don't make the hurt go away...believe me I know.
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29-11-2013, 10:00 AM
RE: Enough is enough
(28-11-2013 03:10 AM)Heywood Jahblome Wrote:  
(28-11-2013 01:51 AM)LostandInsecure Wrote:  Thanks guys. Tonight I think I will just have some drinks and forget it all.

Booze don't make the hurt go away...believe me I know.

No, but it's an occasional relief. Some nights you just need to have some friends get drunk play cards and let your problems have a break. They'll still be there tomorrow.
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29-11-2013, 10:30 AM
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(29-11-2013 10:00 AM)LostandInsecure Wrote:  ...
Some nights you just need to have some friends get drunk play cards and let your problems have a break. They'll still be there tomorrow.

Not if your problems include having too much money and having too much booze in the house.

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29-11-2013, 10:33 AM
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(29-11-2013 10:30 AM)DLJ Wrote:  
(29-11-2013 10:00 AM)LostandInsecure Wrote:  ...
Some nights you just need to have some friends get drunk play cards and let your problems have a break. They'll still be there tomorrow.

Not if your problems include having too much money and having too much booze in the house.

Tongue

Love, if only I had problems like that I wouldn't have any problems at all lol.
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