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19-06-2016, 05:39 PM
RE: Family.
My sister hasn't spoken to me in 8 years. It was over the death of my father and his will. (Long story) Anyway, one of the things I didn't want to do is pull my brothers into the fight. I told them that my sister was also their sister and please don't let our riff affect them. They live in Canada and my sister and I live in Oregon so they're not really affected by it anyway.

I have encouraged them to stay in contact with her. One brother has his own problems with her and the other brother is pretty tepid towards her. She's not the most likeable person. Even my parents were puzzled by her. My mother once got so fed up with her she called her the Wicked Witch of the West.

I think you're going to have to face the fact that the three of you aren't going to be all fuzzy and warm. Spend time with your brother and sister separately. Give it time, it may resolve itself.

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20-06-2016, 01:49 PM
RE: Family.
My bro replied to my message saying he cant and will never ever forgive my sister and that he is sorry it is affecting me.

Thanks for all the words of advice though, appreciate it Heart

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20-06-2016, 02:04 PM
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(20-06-2016 01:49 PM)bemore Wrote:  My bro replied to my message saying he cant and will never ever forgive my sister and that he is sorry it is affecting me.

Thanks for all the words of advice though, appreciate it Heart

Well, just carry on a relationship with each separately and don't talk about the other one at all. They apparently hurt each other deeply and are now bone heads.

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20-06-2016, 02:06 PM
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My aunt Rhonda often says - families are dangerous places.

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21-06-2016, 11:43 AM
RE: Family.
Keep relations with both of them. Work on things you have in common with each of them. Your brother may have a change of heart in the future.

Does your sister have children? Does your brother have other children? If so, do they ever see their uncle/aunt?
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