How Do You Go About Relationships?
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24-08-2017, 10:36 AM
RE: How Do You Go About Relationships?
Be honest, don't take advantage of the other, don't manipulate, play fair, don't have expectations.

Wherever that leads me, I go.

I don't believe in entrapping people in relationships and monogamy, but if you start a relationship on the basis of monogamy and the other party invests on that, you'd better be prepared for it.

A lot of people will approach you and feel the need to lie to you just so they can get laid or even to just have a relationship and not be alone. That's not always purposely malevolent, but honestly, if only some guys knew that they didn't have to lie and pretend to have feelings for me just to get in my pants, we would have avoided tons of hurt feelings and lost time.

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24-08-2017, 12:26 PM
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(24-08-2017 10:36 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  if only some guys knew that they didn't have to lie and pretend to have feelings for me just to get in my pants, we would have avoided tons of hurt feelings and lost time.

So... how you doin'? Tongue

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24-08-2017, 01:08 PM
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(24-08-2017 12:26 PM)morondog Wrote:  
(24-08-2017 10:36 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  if only some guys knew that they didn't have to lie and pretend to have feelings for me just to get in my pants, we would have avoided tons of hurt feelings and lost time.

So... how you doin'? Tongue

Aw you, you wouldn't even have to try. I already have a forum crush on you Angel

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24-08-2017, 01:15 PM
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(24-08-2017 01:08 PM)undergroundp Wrote:  
(24-08-2017 12:26 PM)morondog Wrote:  So... how you doin'? Tongue

Aw you, you wouldn't even have to try. I already have a forum crush on you Angel

Blush Wow Smile Likewise. Geography's a bitch.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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24-08-2017, 01:24 PM
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(24-08-2017 01:15 PM)morondog Wrote:  
(24-08-2017 01:08 PM)undergroundp Wrote:  Aw you, you wouldn't even have to try. I already have a forum crush on you Angel

Blush Wow Smile Likewise. Geography's a bitch.

Heart Haha, fucking geography tho.

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26-08-2017, 05:32 AM
RE: How Do You Go About Relationships?
I respect my partner's freedom and share the interests
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26-08-2017, 08:41 AM
RE: How Do You Go About Relationships?
Seek friendship, develop respect, find love before sexual intimacy.

Don't treat sex as a sport or hobby.

Know your values and look for them in others.

Be compassionate and expect compassion in return.

Communicate, communicate, communicate.

Keep your relationship life off social media.

Don't make lists of what you expect in a partner and spend time only trying to fulfill that to perfection. You may pass up the best person because you are stuck on that list.

And if you want love and respect keep trying until you find it.

"The Ox is slow, but the Earth is patient."
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26-08-2017, 09:11 AM
RE: How Do You Go About Relationships?
I get to know her and see if we're a good fit. I don't have a template I work from. I do have basic requirements: Intelligence, decency, empathy ... but other than that I think all relationships are unique.

As a result, I cotton to the advice my mom gave me as a young man, which is, "Tell her how you feel, and let her decide what to do with that knowledge."
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