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12-01-2017, 06:59 PM
How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
How can I resist the urge to be a dick?

As hard as I try, I give in to my desires to act like a dick. Now you may think this is a joke but I am not joking.

It just feels satisfying to act like a dick. It's almost entertaining. I have to resist and fight the urge everyday.

Is anyone here a recovered dick? How did you overcome?
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12-01-2017, 07:02 PM
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
I'm female so I don't have this problem. Angel

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Ill-fac’d, worse bodied, shapeless every where;
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Stigmatical in making, worse in mind.
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12-01-2017, 07:03 PM
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
i don't think you can do it. It's really hard for Drumpfucks not to be dicks.

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12-01-2017, 07:06 PM
How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
(12-01-2017 07:03 PM)Minimalist Wrote:  i don't think you can do it. It's really hard for Drumpfucks not to be dicks.


Thanks for your support and encouragement.
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12-01-2017, 07:07 PM
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
Our number one unwritten forum rule is "don't be a dick"

So if you can't resist the urge we can help but you might not like the result.

On a serious note, impulse urge is important. I suggest you try when you are being a dick, save the post as a draft and don't actually post it. It can be cathartic to just say it, even if no one else does...

You have no idea how many drafts I've got saved. Every so often I go through and read them again...


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And without so much as a mere touch, cut me into little pieces

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12-01-2017, 07:09 PM (This post was last modified: 12-01-2017 07:17 PM by GirlyMan.)
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
I think it's just a matter of shifting intent. If you do it for self-gratification and satisfaction then you're just being a dick, if you do the exact same thing for entertainment value then you're just fooling around. Don't resist the urge, embrace your inner dickness and channel it for your amusement instead. Thumbsup

I might be biased though what with being an unrepentant incorrigible dick and all.

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12-01-2017, 07:09 PM
How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
(12-01-2017 07:07 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  Our number one unwritten forum rule is "don't be a dick"

So if you can't resist the urge we can help but you might not like the result.

On a serious note, impulse urge is important. I suggest you try when you are being a dick, save the post as a draft and don't actually post it. It can be cathartic to just say it, even if no one else does...

You have no idea how many drafts I've got saved. Every so often I go through and read them again...


Excellent advise but what do I do in real life?
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12-01-2017, 07:11 PM (This post was last modified: 12-01-2017 07:14 PM by cactus.)
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
When I'm feeling annoyed or anxious or whatever, I like to put on my headphones and jam out to my musics, but that's just me.

For IRL encounters, you could try stating everything in kind of a sarcastic way, that way you can have plausible deniability for anything you say Thumbsup

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12-01-2017, 07:12 PM
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
I would ask myself why I was getting satisfaction from being a dick, what need was it fulfilling in me. Maybe it's less about the urge to be a dick and more about something else going on with you. Maybe examine that, deal with that, and your desire to be a dick will go away.
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12-01-2017, 07:15 PM
RE: How can I resist the urge to be a dick?
(12-01-2017 07:09 PM)KUSA Wrote:  
(12-01-2017 07:07 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  Our number one unwritten forum rule is "don't be a dick"

So if you can't resist the urge we can help but you might not like the result.

On a serious note, impulse urge is important. I suggest you try when you are being a dick, save the post as a draft and don't actually post it. It can be cathartic to just say it, even if no one else does...

You have no idea how many drafts I've got saved. Every so often I go through and read them again...


Excellent advise but what do I do in real life?

stick a pin in your pants pocket and poke yourself hard whenever the urge comes.

Admittedly in the beginning you'll be poking yourself after you're a dick...

but soon you'll pause and be able to do it before.

iIt could solve your problem or make you a masochist.


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