In love with married coworker
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25-05-2017, 06:47 PM
Sad In love with married coworker
Here's the gist of it. I'm a twenty-something guy in love with my married forty-something female coworker. We always flirt. She always finds excuses to touch me seductively and/or make sexually explicit comments. Today, for instance, she sat in my lap and rested her head on my chest, and when she felt my growing "excitement" (if you know what I mean), she laughed and made a comment about us getting a hotel room.

I would never pursue anything with her. In fact, I feel guilty that it's escalated as far as it has. I think about her all the time, though, and she's admitted as much to me, but I would never cross that line.

How do I get over her?

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25-05-2017, 07:02 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
There are so many single people out there--imo, don't go after someone who's taken, it will only lead to problems and/or heartbreak in the future. If this lady is unhappy in her marriage and truly wants to be with you, she'll end things in her current rship, otherwise she's just looking for a little fun on the side. The problems with that: it's unfair to her husband and if you have feelings for her, you are going to get hurt. You also work with her, which will make work hell if shit hits the fan.

The best way to get over her is to find someone else who can and wants to be in a real rship with you. You can also tell this lady that this entire situation is making you uncomfortable and you want it to stop.
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25-05-2017, 07:13 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
I've done it. It's fun but it's dirty, man. It's hard to stop because you see her everyday at work and it's just there getting you thinking. I know you're asking how do you NOT do it. That's simple. Don't do it. Stop flirting and touching her. Older married pussy... oh man, there's just something so delicious about it. Good luck. A hard dick has no conscience. At least, mine doesn't.
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25-05-2017, 07:13 PM
In love with married coworker
(25-05-2017 06:47 PM)mikep987654321 Wrote:  How do I get over her?
Meet her husband.
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25-05-2017, 07:16 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(25-05-2017 07:13 PM)KUSA Wrote:  
(25-05-2017 06:47 PM)mikep987654321 Wrote:  How do I get over her?
Meet her husband.

The sad part is he knows the situation and doesn't care. It's all so bizarre.

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25-05-2017, 07:16 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(25-05-2017 07:13 PM)KUSA Wrote:  
(25-05-2017 06:47 PM)mikep987654321 Wrote:  How do I get over her?
Meet her husband.

That just makes it more fun.
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25-05-2017, 07:17 PM
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I have to wonder what your work environment is that actions such as sitting on your lap is acceptable.

Maybe you should think about how you would feel if she were your wife and was doing this with someone else.

Think about this...if she will cheat with you will she also cheat on you in the event that you actually form a real relationship.

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25-05-2017, 07:20 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(25-05-2017 07:16 PM)mikep987654321 Wrote:  
(25-05-2017 07:13 PM)KUSA Wrote:  Meet her husband.

The sad part is he knows the situation and doesn't care. It's all so bizarre.

Then fuck her!!! I totally know all about this scene, man. You're not going to be able to not fuck her. The longer you stretch it out the better it gets though so you might as well try to stop. lol
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25-05-2017, 07:23 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(25-05-2017 07:17 PM)Anjele Wrote:  I have to wonder what your work environment is that actions such as sitting on your lap is acceptable.

Maybe you should think about how you would feel if she were your wife and was doing this with someone else.

Think about this...if she will cheat with you will she also cheat on you in the event that you actually form a real relationship.

I know, which is one reason why I have no desire to pursue this.

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25-05-2017, 07:24 PM
In love with married coworker
(25-05-2017 07:16 PM)mikep987654321 Wrote:  
(25-05-2017 07:13 PM)KUSA Wrote:  Meet her husband.

The sad part is he knows the situation and doesn't care. It's all so bizarre.


Is he a Cuckold?
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