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27-05-2017, 09:27 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(27-05-2017 02:01 PM)ImFred Wrote:  Jesse women will be sweet to you if you learn how to fuck them proper. Sounds like you got em disgruntled instead of satisfied.

Ok Fred...

You're now barred from posting in this section.

Its pretty clear that you lack any self control.


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27-05-2017, 10:17 PM
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(27-05-2017 03:31 PM)Dom Wrote:  Speechless at the idiocy in this thread. Facepalm

To the OP:

Quit all interactions with that woman, if she exists. And don't listen to internet trolls.

She definitely exists. I know it's a bit outlandish, but it's all very real, unfortunately. The situation seems to have died down.

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27-05-2017, 10:19 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(27-05-2017 05:56 PM)SYZ Wrote:  
(27-05-2017 02:43 PM)neurotibotical Wrote:  It's true that the law favors women. If a woman claims rape, you may as well kill yourself because you have almost zero chance of anyone believing you're innocent.

You need to calm down Mike, and consider all this stuff more rationally. You're not going to rape her FFS, and you're not even going to screw her. You shouldn't even be holding those sorts of thoughts, as they're only clouding your thinking.

Quote:And if a woman claims you're her baby's daddy on the birth certificate, you either pay child support or go to jail.

Totally irrelevant in your particular case. (And completely erroneous anyway.)

Quote:UPDATE TO MY STORY: The husband left after I called the cops. I told the cops what's going on, but I doubt anything good will come of it.

To be honest Mike, I really believe that you're over-thinking this whole scenario, and creating demons where they don't exist. If this woman is truly causing you all this grief—such that you need to get the police involved—then the simplest and most obvious solution is to resign your position and start looking for another job.

And as the other guys have said already, if this woman is carrying on like you say, then she's just playing some sort of puerile game, at best, or mentally aberrant at worst. Whatever, she has obvious psycho-sexual issues that ain't gonna go away mate, and you just need to walk away before you end up in the shit.

I was only speaking generally. I can recall cases where guys have been screwed over in the fashion I describe in my post.

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28-05-2017, 05:08 AM (This post was last modified: 28-05-2017 05:16 AM by BackSlider.)
RE: In love with married coworker
If she is fuc"n with you like this in her marriage, pussy is all you should ever want of such a person / relationship. Let her know that up front in the guise of HONESTY. See how that floats. You may find this prize (sarcasm) okay with it?

This is a fair example of why prostitution should be legal. (Feed the virgin hunger without conquences other that Master Charge bill.)

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28-05-2017, 09:59 AM
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(25-05-2017 07:45 PM)neurotibotical Wrote:  
(25-05-2017 07:35 PM)jennybee Wrote:  I think I would look for another job. This situation seems fraught with problems. Also, there's nothing wrong with being a virgin and never having a girlfriend. Don't sell yourself short, you were able to attract this lady's attention, I'm sure you can do the same for a single woman as well.

Perhaps, but the cynical side of me thinks she was just using me as a fetish. I'm not really sure I even want a girlfriend. I technically had a girlfriend once, but it was long-distance and we had never met in person, and the whole thing imploded entirely due to me. In other words, I'm probably not boyfriend material--which is totally fine, by the way--so I think my "love" for my coworker is maybe nothing but a kind of pathetic curiosity mixed with lonliness and desperation.

I think I'll just confront her. It's my problem to fix. I shouldn't be so cowardly.

If this whole situation is real--after reading your latest posts, I would find another job and get away from this situation. It's an unhealthy situation all around.

That said, in the future, whether you decide you want a girlfriend in your life or not, don't let your virginity or lack of experience hinder you or make you feel weird or different or whatever. Personally, I have only been with 4 guys in my life and I am very choosy about who I'm with sexually and I don't do the one night stand thing.

While I don't knock anyone who is into sex with multiple partners and/or one night stands (to each their own) I know it's not for me. If a guy I was with told me he was with 52 different women, that would be a turn off for me. I prefer to be with somebody who hasn't been with a ton of different women. There are other women out there who feel the same way as I do.
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28-05-2017, 10:04 AM
RE: In love with married coworker
(28-05-2017 09:59 AM)jennybee Wrote:  
(25-05-2017 07:45 PM)neurotibotical Wrote:  Perhaps, but the cynical side of me thinks she was just using me as a fetish. I'm not really sure I even want a girlfriend. I technically had a girlfriend once, but it was long-distance and we had never met in person, and the whole thing imploded entirely due to me. In other words, I'm probably not boyfriend material--which is totally fine, by the way--so I think my "love" for my coworker is maybe nothing but a kind of pathetic curiosity mixed with lonliness and desperation.

I think I'll just confront her. It's my problem to fix. I shouldn't be so cowardly.

If this whole situation is real--after reading your latest posts, I would find another job and get away from this situation. It's an unhealthy situation all around.

That said, in the future, whether you decide you want a girlfriend in your life or not, don't let your virginity or lack of experience hinder you or make you feel weird or different or whatever. Personally, I have only been with 4 guys in my life and I am very choosy about who I'm with sexually and I don't do the one night stand thing.

While I don't knock anyone who is into sex with multiple partners and/or one night stands (to each their own) I know it's not for me. If a guy I was with told me he was with 52 different women, that would be a turn off for me. I prefer to be with somebody who hasn't been with a ton of different women. There are other women out there who feel the same way as I do.

You'd hate me 73 and counting , but living in nursing accommodation for years what's a guy to do its rude to refuse. Wink but seriously Mike Jenny is right you're actually a really good catch think on that for sure. Smile
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28-05-2017, 10:11 AM
RE: In love with married coworker
(28-05-2017 10:04 AM)adey67 Wrote:  
(28-05-2017 09:59 AM)jennybee Wrote:  If this whole situation is real--after reading your latest posts, I would find another job and get away from this situation. It's an unhealthy situation all around.

That said, in the future, whether you decide you want a girlfriend in your life or not, don't let your virginity or lack of experience hinder you or make you feel weird or different or whatever. Personally, I have only been with 4 guys in my life and I am very choosy about who I'm with sexually and I don't do the one night stand thing.

While I don't knock anyone who is into sex with multiple partners and/or one night stands (to each their own) I know it's not for me. If a guy I was with told me he was with 52 different women, that would be a turn off for me. I prefer to be with somebody who hasn't been with a ton of different women. There are other women out there who feel the same way as I do.

You'd hate me 73 and counting , but living in nursing accommodation for years what's a guy to do its rude to refuse. Wink but seriously Mike Jenny is right you're actually a really good catch think on that for sure. Smile

As I say I don't judge Big Grin I believe in living the one life we have the way we each want to live it.
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28-05-2017, 10:15 AM
RE: In love with married coworker
(28-05-2017 10:11 AM)jennybee Wrote:  
(28-05-2017 10:04 AM)adey67 Wrote:  You'd hate me 73 and counting , but living in nursing accommodation for years what's a guy to do its rude to refuse. Wink but seriously Mike Jenny is right you're actually a really good catch think on that for sure. Smile

As I say I don't judge Big Grin I believe in living the one life we have the way we each want to live it.

Can I still give you a platonic friend hug ? I promise I won't give you VD. Tongue
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28-05-2017, 10:35 AM
RE: In love with married coworker
(28-05-2017 10:15 AM)adey67 Wrote:  
(28-05-2017 10:11 AM)jennybee Wrote:  As I say I don't judge Big Grin I believe in living the one life we have the way we each want to live it.

Can I still give you a platonic friend hug ? I promise I won't give you VD. Tongue

Sure Big Grin Let the platonic friend hugs commence Laugh out load

While not wanting to get STD's is a part of my decision not to sleep around or do the whole one night stand thing--the other part is I like sex to be special and I like to be in love with whoever I'm doing that kinda stuff with Tongue I know it might sound cheesy-but it's true. Yes
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28-05-2017, 03:14 PM
RE: In love with married coworker
(27-05-2017 10:17 PM)neurotibotical Wrote:  
(27-05-2017 03:31 PM)Dom Wrote:  Speechless at the idiocy in this thread. Facepalm

To the OP:

Quit all interactions with that woman, if she exists. And don't listen to internet trolls.

She definitely exists. I know it's a bit outlandish, but it's all very real, unfortunately. The situation seems to have died down.

As others have already said, end all contact with this person. She is clearly bad news.

Document everything.

Get an app for your phone that logs all incoming and outgoing texts and calls to a cloud-based service. Get another app that will log your location. If this blows up into her word against yours then you will have the places, times and discussions on file.

Explain the situation to your manager on Monday. You have suicidal and threatening notes from her so it should be a fairly simple discussion. Don't worry about being fired. You didn't do anything wrong. You didn't have an affair and that isn't a firing offense in most workplaces even if you had. On the off chance that your manager is that foolish you will have a great wrongful dismissal case.

I'm sorry that you've had to experience this. Contrary to what some people have suggested, women like this one are rare. I weep for the luckless bastard that's married to her.

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