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07-12-2011, 10:08 PM
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
I find myself strangely torn as to whether or not I should press the like button on Lilith's post.

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08-12-2011, 07:27 AM
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(07-12-2011 10:08 PM)Erxomai Wrote:  I find myself strangely torn as to whether or not I should press the like button on Lilith's post.

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She had the guts to reply so I think that deserves a like. Thanks Lilith!
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08-12-2011, 02:56 PM
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  Here's a couple of questions I have for you all:

1. Do you use lube? depends - with toys i do - when giving a man a handjob i do
2. How many times do you masturbate daily? Weekly? daily or almost daily
3. What do you use to clean up the "load" or the fluid? towel and /or wipes or shower
4. Are there any techniques to masturbating? yes there are many techniques for both women and men - we don't all like the same ways - fun to try new ones

I'm just curious because not many people are willing to talk about masturbation irl.
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08-12-2011, 03:21 PM
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  Here's a couple of questions I have for you all:

1. Do you use lube?
2. How many times do you masturbate daily? Weekly?
3. What do you use to clean up the "load" or the fluid?
4. Are there any techniques to masturbating?

I'm just curious because not many people are willing to talk about masturbation irl.


I guess I'll answer.
1. Conditioner (only place I spank is the shower)
2. Few times a month (my wife takes pretty good care of my urges so I don't have to)
3. Shower drain
4. Close eyes and imagine past sexual experiences. I'm a very audible person. I think about the sounds of sex just as much, if not more, than the touch.

Pretty boring.

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08-12-2011, 04:26 PM (This post was last modified: 08-12-2011 05:04 PM by GirlyMan.)
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(07-12-2011 08:13 PM)Erxomai Wrote:  
(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  Here's a couple of questions I have for you all: ...

I am so NOT planning to be the first one to answer these questions.

So Hellbound Preacher = fucking pussy.

Keep in mind 4 years ago before I started TRT my answers would be significantly different.

(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  Here's a couple of questions I have for you all:

1. Do you use lube?
Why? Can do it just fine without it.

(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  2. How many times do you masturbate daily? Weekly?
Daily, depending on whether my wife hits me up for sex first. .... No scratch that, daily.

(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  3. What do you use to clean up the "load" or the fluid?
Whaddya mean? I just pull my underwear up and go about my business. Dries quick enough and I'm gonna turn my underwear inside out for tomorrow anyway.

(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  4. Are there any techniques to masturbating?
Techniques hell, there's fucking technology. Big Grin

(06-12-2011 09:15 AM)germanyt Wrote:  Understandable if you have a test def. Why do they have you on gel instead of 250mg test cyp/month?

My insurance doesn't cover injectable. But it's for the best because the gel better mimics the natural daily peaks and troughs anyway.

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08-12-2011, 04:42 PM
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(08-12-2011 04:26 PM)GirlyMan Wrote:  My insurance doesn't cover injectable. But it's for the best because the gel better mimics the natural daily peaks and troughs anyway.

PM me if you ever want to give it a shot. (no pun intended) It's probably just as cheap as insurance considering the low does you need.

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08-12-2011, 11:24 PM
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(07-12-2011 07:56 PM)Kaos MD Wrote:  Here's a couple of questions I have for you all:

1. Do you use lube?
-Not usually. My preferred is soft fabric like flannel or fleece or jersey knit. Strokers (the fake vaginas like fleshlight etc.) are pretty good, and def need lube for that.

2. How many times do you masturbate daily? Weekly?
-Daily or at least a few times a week. That's in addition to sex.

3. What do you use to clean up the "load" or the fluid?
-When using soft fabric, the clean up is built in.

4. Are there any techniques to masturbating?
-Absolutely, but it all depends on your preferences. If you're curious, look it up. There are books, and on-line resources.

I'm just curious because not many people are willing to talk about masturbation irl.

-No they are definitely not!!!

When I was a teen I suffered greatly precisely because no one talked about. I was your usual horny teen boy, I loved porn when I could get my hands on it, and I masturbated frequently. But I was also an extremely devout Catholic. My parents never mentioned masturbation and was of course to afraid to ask them. So I found out what the church taught: it's a mortal sin - and even just lusting is a mortal sin. And so began my cycle of shame that lasted years. Go to confession. Resists and be good, torturing myself as long as possible trying not to think about sex. Eventually I would inevitably cave in. Then later I would feel extremely guilty, ashamed, and disgusted with myself and repent. If I had bought porn, I would destroy it (this was pre-internet), and return to confession and start the cycle again. I probably confessed to dozen different priests over the years and not a single one of them told me it was normal for teenaged boys. NOT ONE! I was in a spiral of shame, depression and self hate on and off for years over this. Thankfully, it's much more mainstream now and information is more easily available. But I absolutely hate the idea that there might be others still going through this same thing. When criticizing religion, we often talk about the horrible atrocities, the child abuse, etc. And we're often told those were human failings. But this is no aberration. This is the inevitable consequence of the real Catholic teachings.

Thankfully, I am fully recovered from my Catholic sexual guilt!!! I now wholeheartedly and unabashedly embrace my sexuality. I am a horny man and proud of it. I have an amazing sex life and it includes masturbation. I am no longer ashamed of that and to anyone who is... please try and learn to accept it. It is absolutely natural and there is nothing wrong with it. It's fun. It's safe. It's pleasurable. You can do it alone. You can do it with others. So go ahead and do it, and don't feel guilty about it.

Happy wanking everyone!

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08-12-2011, 11:41 PM (This post was last modified: 09-12-2011 12:34 AM by Erxomai.)
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(08-12-2011 04:26 PM)GirlyMan Wrote:  So Hellbound Preacher = fucking pussy.

Hey man. It's not like that's the first time I've been called a pussy, but for the record, I didn't say I wouldn't serve if elected, I just said I wasn't going first. Big Grin
I'm with Apostate on masturbation.
Oh wait, that didn't come out right.
Oh wait, that didn't either...

Um, what I meant to say is, the things he wrote, I could have written (except the part where his frequency is also in addition to sex. Sad ). Oh, and the part that I didn't have a priest to confess it to. But I did a whole lot of confessing to God, begging to be forgiven, and better yet, empowered by the holy spirit to be able to stop. I'd go as long as I could, sometimes weeks, once I think I made it several months when I was around 17. Fuck that shit man.
Every New Year's I'd resolve not to masturbate again.
Every Birthday I'd resolve this would be the age I'd stop.
Every School Year it would be another new beginning and the chance to stop.
And no one to talk about it with. Fuck that shit man.

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09-12-2011, 08:03 PM (This post was last modified: 09-12-2011 09:10 PM by GirlyMan.)
RE: Is masturbation harmless fun?
(08-12-2011 11:41 PM)Erxomai Wrote:  
(08-12-2011 04:26 PM)GirlyMan Wrote:  So Hellbound Preacher = fucking pussy.

Hey man. It's not like that's the first time I've been called a pussy, but for the record, I didn't say I wouldn't serve if elected, I just said I wasn't going first.

Hmmm ... yeah, that makes you a pussy, brother.

(08-12-2011 11:41 PM)Erxomai Wrote:  But I did a whole lot of confessing to God, begging to be forgiven, and better yet, empowered by the holy spirit to be able to stop.

I've done a whole lot of beating off to God. Not exactly sure which orifice I was fucking, but I can guarantee you it was sore when I was done.

(08-12-2011 11:24 PM)Apostate XP Wrote:  Thankfully, I am fully recovered from my Catholic sexual guilt!!! I now wholeheartedly and unabashedly embrace my sexuality. I am a horny man and proud of it. I have an amazing sex life and it includes masturbation.

Yup, that's pretty much our natural state. Dunno know why some Christian sects are scared of it to the extent that they feel the need to obscure it. It's almost as if they don't trust me enough to make my own calls.

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10-12-2011, 12:42 AM
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(08-12-2011 11:24 PM)Apostate XP Wrote:  When I was a teen I suffered greatly precisely because no one talked about. I was your usual horny teen boy, I loved porn when I could get my hands on it, and I masturbated frequently. But I was also an extremely devout Catholic. My parents never mentioned masturbation and was of course to afraid to ask them. So I found out what the church taught: it's a mortal sin - and even just lusting is a mortal sin. And so began my cycle of shame that lasted years. Go to confession. Resists and be good, torturing myself as long as possible trying not to think about sex. Eventually I would inevitably cave in. Then later I would feel extremely guilty, ashamed, and disgusted with myself and repent. If I had bought porn, I would destroy it (this was pre-internet), and return to confession and start the cycle again. I probably confessed to dozen different priests over the years and not a single one of them told me it was normal for teenaged boys. NOT ONE! I was in a spiral of shame, depression and self hate on and off for years over this. Thankfully, it's much more mainstream now and information is more easily available. But I absolutely hate the idea that there might be others still going through this same thing. When criticizing religion, we often talk about the horrible atrocities, the child abuse, etc. And we're often told those were human failings. But this is no aberration. This is the inevitable consequence of the real Catholic teachings.

Thankfully, I am fully recovered from my Catholic sexual guilt!!! I now wholeheartedly and unabashedly embrace my sexuality. I am a horny man and proud of it. I have an amazing sex life and it includes masturbation. I am no longer ashamed of that and to anyone who is... please try and learn to accept it. It is absolutely natural and there is nothing wrong with it. It's fun. It's safe. It's pleasurable. You can do it alone. You can do it with others. So go ahead and do it, and don't feel guilty about it.

Happy wanking everyone!

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That's the way I felt about masturbation and porn for a very long time. When I still believed in God it was weird to think that he was watching me masturbate and that somehow that offended him. Since I have embraced my atheism I haven't regretted any sexual activities I have had. It's nice not to be porn for the invisible man in the sky Smile.
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