Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
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20-11-2012, 01:02 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(20-11-2012 12:19 PM)FZUMedia Wrote:  Well, there s no moral problem since you are not stealing property or using violence.

In terms of health, absolutely not- you can catch all kinds of life debilitating STDs/STIs or an unwanted baby- either of which would be an equally horrible thing to experience. You don't want a killed foetus or an STD on your shoulder.
An intelligent, responsible person is quite capable of taking precautions against such health risks. You don't just run around sticking your dick in random holes. You approach sex like sky diving. It's fun, but you have to take it seriously to prevent mishaps.

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20-11-2012, 02:05 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(20-11-2012 01:02 PM)Stark Raving Wrote:  
(20-11-2012 12:19 PM)FZUMedia Wrote:  Well, there s no moral problem since you are not stealing property or using violence.

In terms of health, absolutely not- you can catch all kinds of life debilitating STDs/STIs or an unwanted baby- either of which would be an equally horrible thing to experience. You don't want a killed foetus or an STD on your shoulder.
An intelligent, responsible person is quite capable of taking precautions against such health risks. You don't just run around sticking your dick in random holes. You approach sex like sky diving. It's fun, but you have to take it seriously to prevent mishaps.
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20-11-2012, 02:16 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
A whore sells her body for a high (or sometimes not so high) price. And no, I have no problem with people who do that. I had long conversations with prostitutes and about their job. Some do it because they like it, some do it for the cash, some do it because they are not good at anything else or so they think.
I am not sure about the rest of the world but in Germany it got to the point that prostitution is legal and state controlled (for the most part). You can legaly put that down as your job and be selfemployed like that or even officially work in a brothel.
I know, too that it is really just a job. In one of my conversations I asked her if it isn't ugly when people come without washing themselves first. I still had this very dirty image in my mind. She said that actually most her customers are very clean and if not she offers them a shower which is never a problem as the customer, too, knows that this is business and he has to fulfill his part. That, btw, was not a German prostitute.

Now about having many sexual partners. That does not make you a whore.
It's your body and your live, do what you want with it. Why would I not want a sexpartner who knows what they are doing? And of course it has to come from somewhere, you don't learn to be great in bed from porn...
Only thing I find kinda unfair is that women who had or have many sexpartners are looked down to, much much more than men. How is that acceptable?

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20-11-2012, 05:24 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(20-11-2012 01:02 PM)Stark Raving Wrote:  
(20-11-2012 12:19 PM)FZUMedia Wrote:  Well, there s no moral problem since you are not stealing property or using violence.

In terms of health, absolutely not- you can catch all kinds of life debilitating STDs/STIs or an unwanted baby- either of which would be an equally horrible thing to experience. You don't want a killed foetus or an STD on your shoulder.
An intelligent, responsible person is quite capable of taking precautions against such health risks. You don't just run around sticking your dick in random holes. You approach sex like sky diving. It's fun, but you have to take it seriously to prevent mishaps.
Well, the condom can break, or the woman in question could forget to take the pill- there is an element of risk, although small. I personally have a high discretion when it comes to sexual partners because of things that can go wrong, you need a lot of trust.
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20-11-2012, 07:11 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(20-11-2012 05:24 PM)FZUMedia Wrote:  
(20-11-2012 01:02 PM)Stark Raving Wrote:  An intelligent, responsible person is quite capable of taking precautions against such health risks. You don't just run around sticking your dick in random holes. You approach sex like sky diving. It's fun, but you have to take it seriously to prevent mishaps.
Well, the condom can break, or the woman in question could forget to take the pill- there is an element of risk, although small. I personally have a high discretion when it comes to sexual partners because of things that can go wrong, you need a lot of trust.
I agree that discretion is an excellent tool for managing the risks involved with every new partner. Sex with someone you trust is not only safer (no son, that does NOT mean you can skip the rubber), but also it's almost always better.

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20-11-2012, 07:31 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(20-11-2012 07:11 PM)Stark Raving Wrote:  (no son, that does NOT mean you can skip the rubber)

You know they guys, in one ear and out the rubber.

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20-11-2012, 07:31 PM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(20-11-2012 10:35 AM)NotSoVacuous Wrote:  I notice a lot of the general public tend to have issues with people who have had too many partners in the past. Women seemed to be scrutinized more so than men, but nevertheless both are given demeaning titles by most.

I for one do feel a slight sexual jealousy knowing that my significant other has had other partners in the past, yet so have I I don't view her any less. I simply ignore the feeling as some nature instinct that still apart of my biological self.

Ethically speaking, is there anything wrong with sleeping with who you want, when you want, and how you want? Under the circumstances that if relationships do come about, you do not cheat, and you take proper precautions with avoiding STDs/spreading STDs. (AKA not sleeping with just anyone--I know this can have subjective meaning.)

For the record I have had many partners, and so has my girlfriend. I do not have a problem with it. We are not here to discuss how I feel about her or my sexual activity, rather the idea as a whole. So, is there anything ethically wrong with not "limiting" yourself I ask you TTA community?
You seem to be talking about sluts, not whores. I don't have a problem with either, though.

As for sluts, it's one more word used to put people down so people can feel holier than thou. Additionally, it's one of the things many religions tell you not to do, and goes back to the idea of being ashamed of one's body and one's sexuality and looking donw on people who don't feel any supernatural reason to keep their legs together. (The mere thought of a disapproving paternal figure looking down on me, shaking his head, would probably be enough to kill the mood for me. I can't say for sure, because I've never believed in deities.)

As for whores, I don't think prostitution should be a crime.

Quote: Well, the condom can break, or the woman in question could forget to
take the pill- there is an element of risk, although small. I personally
have a high discretion when it comes to sexual partners because of
things that can go wrong, you need a lot of trust.
That's what morning after pill and abortions are for,to take care of birth control failure. But yes, it's probably not a great idea to sleep with literally every person who talks to you at the bar, for various reasons.

Personally, I am a misanthropist with SPD and I can't stand people enough to sleep with very many, but I still don't agree with the notion of slut-shaming.
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25-11-2012, 05:28 AM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
I for one have a problem with people that "hook up" at bars after getting shitfaced and by accident have yet another kid that is paid for by taxpayers. If you doubt such people exist, I suggest you take a look at some of the day time talk shows out there. So many guests on those shows are on there to see if they can figure out what piece of shit they slept with is their baby daddy. You can just tell that they must have been part of a gangbang, due to the sheer amount of guys they have dna tested and are still wrong most of the time. There are so many diseases out there as well. To me you are pretty damn worthless if your life revolves around getting drunk and laid as much as possible. No better than a crack addict as far as I am concerned.
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25-11-2012, 05:36 AM
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(25-11-2012 05:28 AM)Birdguy1979 Wrote:  ...
To me you are pretty damn worthless if your life revolves around getting drunk and laid as much as possible. No better than a crack addict as far as I am concerned.

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25-11-2012, 12:18 PM (This post was last modified: 25-11-2012 01:25 PM by amyb.)
RE: Is there anything wrong with being a whore?
(25-11-2012 05:28 AM)Birdguy1979 Wrote:  I for one have a problem with people that "hook up" at bars after getting shitfaced and by accident have yet another kid that is paid for by taxpayers. If you doubt such people exist, I suggest you take a look at some of the day time talk shows out there. So many guests on those shows are on there to see if they can figure out what piece of shit they slept with is their baby daddy. You can just tell that they must have been part of a gangbang, due to the sheer amount of guys they have dna tested and are still wrong most of the time. There are so many diseases out there as well. To me you are pretty damn worthless if your life revolves around getting drunk and laid as much as possible. No better than a crack addict as far as I am concerned.
As I see it, the problem here (and I agree it's a problem) is not a problem with casual sex itself, but with the stupidity of the people having sex. If people are smart and take precautions, accidents are rare. However, a LOT of people are not smart and do not take precautions, aren't on birth control, don't use condoms, and then they don't wanna take plan b and they don't wanna get an abortion, so we end up with a lot of shitty talk show fodder.

To me, you're wrongly placing the blame on sex when you should be blaming people's stupidity.

Getting drunk and laid a lot and being considered a slut is not necessarily the same thing as being a complete sex fiend who thinks about nothing else. I don't think there is anything wrong with promiscuity in and of itself, but I'd probably think twice before sleeping with someone who was considered a huge slut for STD reasons, sure. But that doesn't mean I have a problem with them sleeping with other people, especially if they use protection.

In short, if the sluttiness isn't harming anyone, it isn't a problem. If it is, it's likely the person's stupidity or lack of self-control is to blame more than their sex life.
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