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03-02-2014, 12:12 PM
RE: Just really?
This seemed appropriate for this thread.

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Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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03-02-2014, 12:12 PM
RE: Just really?
I'll bring the sunscreen...

...and a razor and mirror...

...not that I'd know anything about that.

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03-02-2014, 12:25 PM
RE: Just really?
(03-02-2014 12:12 PM)Anjele Wrote:  I'll bring the sunscreen...

...and a razor and mirror...

...not that I'd know anything about that.

You must mean that we are going to shave each other and the rub in the...

No wait... you meant... Nope, I don't know anything about that either.

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03-02-2014, 01:09 PM
RE: Just really?
(03-02-2014 08:33 AM)Chippy Wrote:  Many marriages end as a result of infidelity. Married men comprise a large part of the market for (legal) brothels and escorts and they are large consumers of pornography.

In my experience, women cheat as much as men.
The difference is:
1 - they can hide it better than men
2 - they do it for different reasons

Yes, many men go to brothels, because it has been acceptable for thousands of years. But women? It's not even acceptable today. Maybe it has kind of been acceptable for the last 10 years?

And please, don't go to pornography. What I said about the brothels applies here too. Even my grandma will stop changing channels and watch for a bit if she stumbles upon porn.

Plus, it's a myth that women don't want to have sex as much as men. Yes, they may not want it as often, but when they want it, it can be pretty intense.

(03-02-2014 09:00 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  Men, as a rule, will think about sex with almost every female they meet. Even if it is a fleeting, insignificant thought, our brains almost always assesses the reproductive qualities of females. Most of this is just biological automation that does it's thing in the primitive parts of the mind.

Well then, that makes me a man.

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03-02-2014, 01:11 PM
RE: Just really?
(03-02-2014 07:13 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  Now, I have a couple of male friends and maybe dozens of male acquaintances with whom I go out sometimes. Are you guys implying that, given the right circumstances, I would fuck all of them? How about no?

I know this wasn't directed at me, but I'll chime in enough to say that I wouldn't presume what another person would or wouldn't do. Human sexuality is crazy complex. All I can do is speak of my own anecdotes.


(03-02-2014 07:13 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  You guys talking about "urges" and "biology" and stuff, don't you have any really ugly female friends? Why don't you want to fuck them?

For me specifically, I'll be honest: there are few women to whom I'm not related that the thought hasn't occurred to me at least once. I'm not saying it's a constant thing, but I have thought about even the "ugly" ones. The big thing is, I've been married now, for ten years, so I'm not out looking to hook up with someone, so that changes things quite a bit.

Also, on a related note, I've noticed one of the biggest things that has to do with how attractive I find someone is how much I like them. The more I get to know them and the more I like them as a person, the more physically attractive I find them. I have no idea if that's typical or not, but I think it would make me being friend-zoned even more awkward, as a solid friendship might make me think about them more, if that makes any sense.


(03-02-2014 07:13 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  I know I would have saved a lot of time if those acquaintances or friends that were interested in me were more clear about it. "Wanna go for a coffee?" Sure, because that's what I do with my friends. If you want to fuck me, say you want to fuck me, duh.

Yeah, I think being up front and honest is the best policy. Neither one of the people is inherently wrong, and the quicker they realize they're on the same page or not, the happier they both will be.
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03-02-2014, 01:17 PM
RE: Just really?
As usual, exact same thread on AF...yawn.

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03-02-2014, 01:18 PM
RE: Just really?
(03-02-2014 04:08 AM)earmuffs Wrote:  And I'm sick of females putting their expectations on males.
At least you know exactly what he's feeling. He wants to put his kettle in your tea cosy.
And if you're not into that than at least he has the decency to walk away.

Seriously I don't know what you're complaining about. If you go out with a guy he went out with you because he wants to fuck you.
That's why he asked you out, because you're physically attractive.
If he's not gonna get some from you than he's gonna cut his loses and find someone that will put out.
If you want to "friendzone" him but he's not interested in being friends it's not because he's a jerk, it's because you're not interesting enough to him to make him want to be your friend. It's not on him at all.
It's the same with a relationship. If all he wants to do is fuck but you want to have a "relationship" then you're not being interesting enough that you make him want more then just a fuck buddy. And if you're looking for something more then just a fuck buddy and he has no interest in being friendzone then you're just not compatible, it's better for both people to just cut their loses and fuck off and find someone who is better suited to their desires.

People don't date because they're looking for more friends. People date because they're either looking for a fuck buddy or they're looking for a relationship.


tl;dr He's not a jerk for not wanting to be "friendzoned", it's just you're not interesting enough he wants to be "friendzoned".

That's about the best explanation I've heard. I'm probably going to steal the tl;dr version cause I'm too lazy to rewrite this a million times.

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03-02-2014, 01:43 PM
RE: Just really?
(03-02-2014 01:17 PM)Anjele Wrote:  As usual, exact same thread on AF...yawn.

Well, she seemed to get more of a positive response over there. Apparently more people on AF are subscribed to the viewpoint that all men that are attracted to you feel they are "entitled" to sex.

Seriously? Because a man shows sexual interest but not platonic, he automatically feels like it is his RIGHT to have sex with you?

How can anyone go through life with such fucked up views on the opposite sex?

Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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03-02-2014, 01:50 PM
RE: Just really?
Ain't the only fucked up views brought up by the OP.

Just sayin'.

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03-02-2014, 02:14 PM
RE: Just really?
(03-02-2014 12:25 PM)DLJ Wrote:  
(03-02-2014 12:12 PM)Anjele Wrote:  I'll bring the sunscreen...

...and a razor and mirror...

...not that I'd know anything about that.

You must mean that we are going to shave each other and the rub in the...

No wait... you meant... Nope, I don't know anything about that either.

Shy


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