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29-01-2013, 08:43 PM (This post was last modified: 29-01-2013 09:00 PM by Lienda Bella.)
RE: Self-Harm
Oh no. No I would never say "just stop doing it." To me, that’s condescending. It’s
like saying “I know you’re weak with no control.” I know they might be
ignorant, but that’s how the message has felt for me personally. I’m pretty
sure that every person wants to feel control over themselves. In my own experience
with hitting, you can't 'just stop it' because it's a brain chemical kind of problem
with the trigger being rooted in the past somewhere. It’s fast and intoxicating
depending on what and how much the reminder of the little root thing is.
Also, if you and I do it plenty of other people do to.
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Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:21 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 03-01-2013, 12:28 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:31 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 03-01-2013, 12:36 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 03-01-2013, 12:36 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Logica Humano - 10-01-2013, 05:04 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 03-01-2013, 12:33 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:37 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 03-01-2013, 12:43 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:44 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 03-01-2013, 12:47 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:49 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 03-01-2013, 12:51 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Misanthropik - 03-01-2013, 04:57 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:38 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 03-01-2013, 12:39 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 12:41 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 03-01-2013, 12:52 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 03-01-2013, 01:00 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 03-01-2013, 01:04 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 03-01-2013, 01:10 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 03-01-2013, 01:22 PM
RE: Self-Harm - BioPsychMS - 03-01-2013, 01:23 PM
RE: Self-Harm - cheapthrillseaker - 03-01-2013, 01:06 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 03-01-2013, 01:31 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Vera - 03-01-2013, 01:51 PM
RE: Self-Harm - frankiej - 03-01-2013, 03:25 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Misanthropik - 03-01-2013, 04:49 PM
RE: Self-Harm - kim - 03-01-2013, 05:25 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Misanthropik - 04-01-2013, 06:03 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 04-01-2013, 12:40 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 04-01-2013, 12:48 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Vera - 04-01-2013, 12:50 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 04-01-2013, 12:55 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 04-01-2013, 12:58 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 04-01-2013, 01:00 PM
RE: Self-Harm - smidgen - 04-01-2013, 06:46 PM
RE: Self-Harm - kim - 04-01-2013, 01:52 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Xinoftruden - 05-01-2013, 12:14 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 07-01-2013, 12:48 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 07-01-2013, 12:52 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 07-01-2013, 12:57 PM
RE: Self-Harm - smidgen - 13-01-2013, 09:47 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Vera - 07-01-2013, 01:03 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 07-01-2013, 03:49 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 09-01-2013, 12:21 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 09-01-2013, 12:29 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 09-01-2013, 12:31 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 09-01-2013, 12:54 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 09-01-2013, 02:36 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Percepticon - 09-01-2013, 05:47 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Logica Humano - 10-01-2013, 05:07 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 10-01-2013, 05:27 PM
Re: Self-Harm - Hobbitgirl - 10-01-2013, 06:34 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Ape_Linkin - 10-01-2013, 07:14 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 11-01-2013, 12:20 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Logica Humano - 13-01-2013, 05:09 PM
RE: Self-Harm - kim - 11-01-2013, 12:26 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 11-01-2013, 12:30 PM
RE: Self-Harm - kim - 11-01-2013, 12:29 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 11-01-2013, 12:30 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 11-01-2013, 01:49 PM
RE: Self-Harm - frankiej - 13-01-2013, 06:51 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 13-01-2013, 09:49 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 13-01-2013, 11:29 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Percepticon - 14-01-2013, 07:07 AM
RE: Self-Harm - bbeljefe - 14-01-2013, 02:00 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 14-01-2013, 12:14 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bbeljefe - 14-01-2013, 01:57 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 14-01-2013, 12:24 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 14-01-2013, 02:54 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 17-01-2013, 12:36 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 17-01-2013, 01:38 PM
RE: Self-Harm - yumeji - 18-01-2013, 04:26 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 17-01-2013, 01:03 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 17-01-2013, 02:12 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 18-01-2013, 12:54 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 18-01-2013, 01:00 PM
RE: Self-Harm - yumeji - 18-01-2013, 01:25 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 20-01-2013, 02:57 AM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 23-01-2013, 07:59 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 23-01-2013, 08:23 PM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 23-01-2013, 09:04 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 23-01-2013, 12:56 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 23-01-2013, 02:01 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 23-01-2013, 02:03 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Impulse - 24-01-2013, 12:23 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 25-01-2013, 12:16 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 25-01-2013, 03:16 PM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 25-01-2013, 03:30 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Impulse - 29-01-2013, 04:11 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Lienda Bella - 29-01-2013 08:43 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 06-02-2013, 01:01 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 06-02-2013, 01:06 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 06-02-2013, 01:07 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Lienda Bella - 07-02-2013, 10:24 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Impulse - 11-02-2013, 12:50 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Aseptic Skeptic - 06-02-2013, 01:07 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Atothetheist - 06-02-2013, 10:01 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 07-02-2013, 12:43 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Atothetheist - 07-02-2013, 02:01 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 06-02-2013, 11:12 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 07-02-2013, 12:56 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 07-02-2013, 01:00 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 07-02-2013, 02:59 PM
RE: Self-Harm - WeAreTheCosmos - 11-02-2013, 10:56 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Anjele - 07-02-2013, 03:04 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 08-02-2013, 12:12 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 11-02-2013, 03:12 PM
RE: Self-Harm - WeAreTheCosmos - 11-02-2013, 03:22 PM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 11-02-2013, 08:16 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Dark Light - 11-02-2013, 09:27 PM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 12-02-2013, 08:45 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Full Circle - 11-02-2013, 10:31 PM
RE: Self-Harm - earmuffs - 12-02-2013, 04:55 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 18-02-2013, 08:25 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Lienda Bella - 18-02-2013, 11:00 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Atothetheist - 18-02-2013, 01:11 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Lienda Bella - 18-02-2013, 02:29 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Luminon - 18-02-2013, 04:07 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 19-02-2013, 12:34 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Luminon - 19-02-2013, 03:06 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 19-02-2013, 08:39 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 19-02-2013, 08:40 AM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 19-02-2013, 09:51 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Luminon - 19-02-2013, 01:01 PM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 19-02-2013, 11:46 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Lienda Bella - 19-02-2013, 05:30 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 19-02-2013, 11:12 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 20-02-2013, 12:35 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 20-02-2013, 01:53 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Anjele - 20-02-2013, 02:45 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 20-02-2013, 04:03 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Hughsie - 20-02-2013, 08:08 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Hughsie - 20-02-2013, 09:36 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Buddy Christ - 20-02-2013, 10:28 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 21-02-2013, 05:10 AM
RE: Self-Harm - frankiej - 21-02-2013, 08:43 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Chas - 21-02-2013, 08:53 AM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 22-02-2013, 04:37 PM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 21-02-2013, 08:55 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Dom - 21-02-2013, 09:09 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Lienda Bella - 21-02-2013, 10:59 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 26-02-2013, 10:15 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Vosur - 26-02-2013, 10:20 AM
RE: Self-Harm - morondog - 26-02-2013, 11:08 PM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 26-02-2013, 10:22 AM
RE: Self-Harm - Vosur - 26-02-2013, 11:02 AM
RE: Self-Harm - GirlyMan - 26-02-2013, 09:14 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Anjele - 26-02-2013, 11:28 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 26-02-2013, 12:12 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Anjele - 26-02-2013, 12:21 PM
RE: Self-Harm - Anjele - 26-02-2013, 10:41 PM
RE: Self-Harm - bemore - 27-02-2013, 12:17 AM
RE: Self-Harm - LadyJane - 27-02-2013, 10:12 AM
RE: Self-Harm - legendoflink - 18-03-2013, 11:20 AM
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