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27-04-2015, 03:34 AM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(27-04-2015 12:17 AM)morondog Wrote:  It's a troll thread though, from the start. The girlfriend never existed.
Yes it seems so.

Given his statement
(26-04-2015 04:09 PM)pauloroberts Wrote:  Now that I know what she was all along...

It seems that he is probing for us to get "shocked" by implying a label he has put on her but without actually saying it himself and hence avoiding the ban hammer.

Probably a zit faced 14 year old who regularly masturbates to girl characters in video games.
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27-04-2015, 03:52 AM
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(27-04-2015 03:34 AM)Stevil Wrote:  Probably a zit faced 14 year old who regularly masturbates to girl characters in video games.

Well, someone needs to keep Team Ninja in business, right?

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27-04-2015, 05:13 AM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(19-04-2015 01:28 PM)pauloroberts Wrote:  My girlfriend and I were watching some romantic comedy the other day (not my idea, trust me), and the topic of sexual history came up. So we ended up talking about it, and it turns out that she's got quite a past.

She's 27 and here is just some of what she told me...

Her first time was when she was 17
When I asked her how many men she's had sex with she couldn't tell me but when I asked if it was over 20 (jokingly) she said oh yes, way more
The first time she did anal was at the age of 18
She has had a threesome on 3 separate occasions
She has kissed girls in clubs many times
She was a member of fetlife for a couple of years
She mentioned something about doing porn

Those are the highlights but she mentioned quite a lot of other occasions and people.

This is not OK. I've been with her for 3 years and I had no idea about any of this. I always had a feeling about her but I really didn't think it was like this. This is a huge shock to me and what bothers me is that I've invested 3 years of my life with someone whose values and mine most certainly do not gel.

I don't really want to break up with her, but at the same time I can't imagine staying with her and being OK with this. It's going to nag away at me, I know it. I'm a firm believer that her sexual history has a lot to do with the ability to pair bond (or should I say, the inability), and I have seen enough evidence of this with my friends and their girlfriends to confirm it.

I hate to think about it as 3 years is a long time, but I guess I probably will be finishing with her, at least that's how I'm feeling right now. But I just want to get people's opinions, for what it's worth.

Haven't read through the thread, but you are a douche.

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27-04-2015, 05:47 AM
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(27-04-2015 05:13 AM)Cathym112 Wrote:  Haven't read through the thread, but you are a douche.

Succinct, nearly terse. Thumbsup

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27-04-2015, 05:52 AM (This post was last modified: 27-04-2015 05:58 AM by Cathym112.)
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(27-04-2015 05:47 AM)Chas Wrote:  
(27-04-2015 05:13 AM)Cathym112 Wrote:  Haven't read through the thread, but you are a douche.

Succinct, nearly terse. Thumbsup

It goes back to valuing virginity, again. He has "standards" which means that the more people you (meaning women and only women) have sex with, the less valuable you are.

She's not a car, dude. Only a man incredibly insecure about his own sexual performance would be bothered by this. She sounds fun!

And sexual history has affects on pair bonding? Citation please.

She's not dirty, she's in touch with her sexuality and had fun while she was young and non committed. And she's a goddamn adult.

Dump her. She deserves someone who doesn't see sex as dirty or who allows society to dictate what he sees as "standards."

Like I said; total douche

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27-04-2015, 06:09 AM
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Woah, cathym! Where have you been hiding?

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27-04-2015, 06:16 AM
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(27-04-2015 06:09 AM)Losty Wrote:  Woah, cathym! Where have you been hiding?

In that lobster pot? Consider

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27-04-2015, 06:27 AM
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(27-04-2015 05:52 AM)Cathym112 Wrote:  
(27-04-2015 05:47 AM)Chas Wrote:  Succinct, nearly terse. Thumbsup

It goes back to valuing virginity, again. He has "standards" which means that the more people you (meaning women and only women) have sex with, the less valuable you are.

She's not a car, dude. Only a man incredibly insecure about his own sexual performance would be bothered by this. She sounds fun!

And sexual history has affects on pair bonding? Citation please.

She's not dirty, she's in touch with her sexuality and had fun while she was young and non committed. And she's a goddamn adult.

Dump her. She deserves someone who doesn't see sex as dirty or who allows society to dictate what he sees as "standards."

Like I said; total douche

Yes, this ^^^

I was about to chime in on this one but then read the above and have nothing to add. And yes...she does sound fun. Yes

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27-04-2015, 06:30 AM
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(27-04-2015 06:09 AM)Losty Wrote:  Woah, cathym! Where have you been hiding?

Just busy with work. I've sold my business and am starting new ventures!

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27-04-2015, 01:31 PM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
(27-04-2015 05:52 AM)Cathym112 Wrote:  
(27-04-2015 05:47 AM)Chas Wrote:  Succinct, nearly terse. Thumbsup

It goes back to valuing virginity, again. He has "standards" which means that the more people you (meaning women and only women) have sex with, the less valuable you are.

She's not a car, dude. Only a man incredibly insecure about his own sexual performance would be bothered by this. She sounds fun!

And sexual history has affects on pair bonding? Citation please.

She's not dirty, she's in touch with her sexuality and had fun while she was young and non committed. And she's a goddamn adult.

Dump her. She deserves someone who doesn't see sex as dirty or who allows society to dictate what he sees as "standards."

Like I said; total douche

Weeping

There are many men who are not insecure about their sexual performance who would not go with a promiscuous woman (or whatever other term might be appropriate, if you catch my drift).

Promiscuity in women has been proven over and over again to be linked with an inability to bond. It is a well known fact.

Sucking off 2 men in an alleyway is not what I would call being in touch with her sexuality. Do you think that's classy? Same goes for all the other depraved things she's done.

I've been reading all the comments and chuckling to myself at the ignorance on this subject.

Anyway, don't let me get in the way. Do carry on.

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