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19-04-2015, 04:21 PM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
A lot of disingenuity and passive agression in this thead. Good luck finding an answer from here OP.

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19-04-2015, 04:26 PM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
Can't think of the name of the poster who had the same sad story...

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Get over yourself...either you love her and accept her for who and what she is or you don't. If you don't, leave her alone. Your insecurities are your problem.

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19-04-2015, 04:33 PM
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(19-04-2015 01:28 PM)pauloroberts Wrote:  My girlfriend and I were watching some romantic comedy the other day (not my idea, trust me), and the topic of sexual history came up. So we ended up talking about it, and it turns out that she's got quite a past.

She's 27 and here is just some of what she told me...

Her first time was when she was 17
When I asked her how many men she's had sex with she couldn't tell me but when I asked if it was over 20 (jokingly) she said oh yes, way more
The first time she did anal was at the age of 18
She has had a threesome on 3 separate occasions
She has kissed girls in clubs many times
She was a member of fetlife for a couple of years
She mentioned something about doing porn

Those are the highlights but she mentioned quite a lot of other occasions and people.

This is not OK. I've been with her for 3 years and I had no idea about any of this. I always had a feeling about her but I really didn't think it was like this. This is a huge shock to me and what bothers me is that I've invested 3 years of my life with someone whose values and mine most certainly do not gel.

I don't really want to break up with her, but at the same time I can't imagine staying with her and being OK with this. It's going to nag away at me, I know it. I'm a firm believer that her sexual history has a lot to do with the ability to pair bond (or should I say, the inability), and I have seen enough evidence of this with my friends and their girlfriends to confirm it.

I hate to think about it as 3 years is a long time, but I guess I probably will be finishing with her, at least that's how I'm feeling right now. But I just want to get people's opinions, for what it's worth.

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19-04-2015, 04:37 PM
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19-04-2015, 04:50 PM
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@OP: Oh, you shat and ran at TTA, too, I see. Must be bashashelygirl1438ash.
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19-04-2015, 04:56 PM
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(19-04-2015 04:21 PM)BlackMason Wrote:  A lot of disingenuity and passive agression in this thead. Good luck finding an answer from here OP.

Where? Who do think is lying about their opinion? I don't do passive-aggressive...I do sarcasm and straight out aggression.

And, if you reread, there have been answers. Several, in fact. If he can't handle her past after three years he needs to move on. He states it will continue to nag at him...so what's the point of staying other than to make two people miserable.

You are usually pretty level, I get the feeling this may hit a little too close to home for you to be objective.

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19-04-2015, 05:07 PM
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(19-04-2015 04:21 PM)BlackMason Wrote:  A lot of disingenuity and passive agression in this thead. Good luck finding an answer from here OP.

*disingenuousness

And, no, there's not. The guy is an asshole for attempting to slut shame his girlfriend on a public forum. In his first post, at that.

The OP can go fuck himself. Drinking Beverage

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19-04-2015, 05:07 PM
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19-04-2015, 05:14 PM
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What a surprise....gilgamesh is on board with the OP and Black Mason on this one.

Hopefully there won't be any dog-beating videos from him this time.

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19-04-2015, 05:25 PM
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(19-04-2015 04:21 PM)BlackMason Wrote:  A lot of disingenuity and passive agression in this thead. Good luck finding an answer from here OP.

By all means, dazzle us with your fantastic fucking insight, then.
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