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19-04-2015, 05:43 PM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
OP...I suggest you see a psychiatrist. You have some weird sexual issues.

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19-04-2015, 05:47 PM
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(19-04-2015 04:50 PM)Exian Wrote:  @OP: Oh, you shat and ran at TTA, too, I see. Must be bashashelygirl1438ash.

JAshbGash is better than this. She complains about more important things, like fancy drinks.

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19-04-2015, 05:49 PM (This post was last modified: 19-04-2015 05:55 PM by GirlyMan.)
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past




But I like the stinky parts.

#sigh
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19-04-2015, 06:00 PM
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I feel like I dropped the ball here without an early "Pics or GTFO" reply.
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19-04-2015, 06:11 PM
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Trolls gonna troll.
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19-04-2015, 07:09 PM
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(19-04-2015 01:28 PM)pauloroberts Wrote:  My girlfriend and I were watching some romantic comedy the other day (not my idea, trust me), and the topic of sexual history came up. So we ended up talking about it, and it turns out that she's got quite a past.

She's 27 and here is just some of what she told me...

Her first time was when she was 17
When I asked her how many men she's had sex with she couldn't tell me but when I asked if it was over 20 (jokingly) she said oh yes, way more
The first time she did anal was at the age of 18
She has had a threesome on 3 separate occasions
She has kissed girls in clubs many times
She was a member of fetlife for a couple of years
She mentioned something about doing porn

Those are the highlights but she mentioned quite a lot of other occasions and people.

This is not OK. I've been with her for 3 years and I had no idea about any of this. I always had a feeling about her but I really didn't think it was like this. This is a huge shock to me and what bothers me is that I've invested 3 years of my life with someone whose values and mine most certainly do not gel.

I don't really want to break up with her, but at the same time I can't imagine staying with her and being OK with this. It's going to nag away at me, I know it. I'm a firm believer that her sexual history has a lot to do with the ability to pair bond (or should I say, the inability), and I have seen enough evidence of this with my friends and their girlfriends to confirm it.

I hate to think about it as 3 years is a long time, but I guess I probably will be finishing with her, at least that's how I'm feeling right now. But I just want to get people's opinions, for what it's worth.

You should be grateful that she was real good in that department when you met her. No need to train her and convince her. A lot of extra time and effort have been lifted. And, that's always a good thing. Thumbsup

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19-04-2015, 07:26 PM
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Sounds to me like she's sewn her wild oats and wants to settle down now. It's those people who have no sexual experience ya gotta watch out for. They're a time bomb ready to explode.

She's a keeper.

Shakespeare's Comedy of Errors.... on Donald J. Trump:

He is deformed, crooked, old, and sere,
Ill-fac’d, worse bodied, shapeless every where;
Vicious, ungentle, foolish, blunt, unkind,
Stigmatical in making, worse in mind.
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19-04-2015, 08:06 PM
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I'm sure she'd be thrilled to see you posted her intimate history online (if this is real at all) What an ass.
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19-04-2015, 08:10 PM
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(19-04-2015 08:06 PM)Hobbitgirl Wrote:  I'm sure she'd be thrilled to see you posted her intimate history online (if this is real at all) What an ass.

It's not like he gave her full name lol.
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19-04-2015, 08:12 PM
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(19-04-2015 08:10 PM)Gilgamesh Wrote:  
(19-04-2015 08:06 PM)Hobbitgirl Wrote:  I'm sure she'd be thrilled to see you posted her intimate history online (if this is real at all) What an ass.

It's not like he gave her full name lol.

Doesn't matter. Its about trusting someone with personal information.
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