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20-04-2015, 12:57 AM
RE: Some thoughts about my girlfriend's sexual past
Gilgamesh...I can see that you're trying to make an analogy but I don't see where you were going with it. Will you explain it further please?

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20-04-2015, 05:37 AM
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(19-04-2015 10:49 PM)Deidre32 Wrote:  Hmmm...saw this posted on AF a moment ago. And no more replies throughout the thread from the OP.
A one post wonder. Big Grin

Well, to be fair, it seems he has posted this on at least two other places (apart from AF):

Here
and
here.

It seems he has replied in both of them, but there's no reply here or on AF.

My guess? People here and on AF were too mean, or some troll found some other guy's post in one of the sites above and decided to post it here and on AF.

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20-04-2015, 05:43 AM
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He said she claimed to be in porn --- but didn't give us any titles to look up....

Guess he's just a fabricating twat....

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20-04-2015, 06:09 AM
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But his name stays at the bottom of the page so he is just sitting around watching lol.

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20-04-2015, 06:13 AM
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you noticed that too??

I guess he DOES just like to watch.....

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Jesus.... I feel dirty now....

I gotta go take a shower...

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20-04-2015, 02:14 PM
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What exactly is wrong with this? lol

You're dating a woman who's pretty open sexually. Enjoy the ride bud.
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20-04-2015, 02:30 PM
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(20-04-2015 02:14 PM)Dusky Wrote:  What exactly is wrong with this? lol

You're dating a woman who's pretty open sexually. Enjoy the ride bud.

I guess he doesn't "measure up"...

heh

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20-04-2015, 02:51 PM
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Hi Paul, I will respond to you assuming you are a real person with a real concern (because otherwise, why respond?). So first, I could totally relate to how you feel, when I was a teenager. I know you want to be possessive and dream about the pure untouched beauty who is all yours and blah blah. But in reality everybody is human and everybody has a history. I think the smart thing to do is to approach this issue fairly early in a relationship. It was less than 3 months into my relationship that I asked to have a sit down talk about this with my gf to disclose our pasts. This was more for me to tell her my past than to hear hers though. I wanted to make sure my history wasn't a deal breaker for her. But that being said, the past is pretty much the past. What's important is what is comfortable for you two as a couple (what activities you want to engage in together that you are both comfortable with). If those are acceptable then there shouldn't really be a problem. The one exception for me would be the porn thing. Promiscuity I can accept but porn and prostitution I don't know if I could handle. But that's going INTO a relationship. If my gf told me right now that she was once in porn, I don't think that would make me even think about leaving her. So maybe it's not important after all.

Anyways, my best advice when it has to do with your partner's sexual history is...don't think about it. It's not going to change.

(19-04-2015 01:46 PM)Chas Wrote:  Can I have her phone number? Drinking Beverage
God damnit Chas! Hahaha.

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20-04-2015, 10:25 PM
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I've been away for a very long time. Greetings, I'm back.

So my post caused quite a stir. Got one clown saying:

(19-04-2015 05:25 PM)Clockwork Wrote:  By all means, dazzle us with your fantastic fucking insight, then.

Ok then I will. We've got a guy who's clearly uncomfortable with his girlfriends sexual history. So I'm going to be as objective as I can. You see, the OP is looking for advice on what HE should do. Therefore, analysing the situation from a subjective perspective is a misdiagnosis. I think the OP was looking for some positive reinforcement of some sort.

Let's be honest, the sexual history of his girlfriend is not normal. I'm not saying that it is not healthy. I'm not saying that it should not be done. I'm not saying that it is wrong. I'm not saying that it is immoral. What I am saying is that it is not typical of the norm. It is strange. So I got pissed off when people started branding his discomfort as an insecurity. If his girl came out with the news that she was a rehabilitated axe murderer, would his discomfort warrant the label insecure? No. What's the common link here? Abnormality is the common link here. It is the abnormality that JUSTIFIES his discomfort. Are you following me?

Then another mentioned that not all women are going to be virgins when dude meets them. Seriously? Really? The problem here is about an abnormal sexual history not a goddamn sexual history.

I do not believe that this was a case of OP trying to adopt other peoples views. A lot of you are Ok with someone with that kind of sexual history. The point here is that OP is not. This thread was NOT about YOU and how you feel about outlier sexual histories. It was about OP. His sexual history appetite is clearly a lot more conservative than the lot of you. Is he wrong for that? No, he's not fucking wrong for that. On what rational basis are you wronging him for that?

Is he slut shaming? No, he is not slut shaming. All he is doing is voicing out some discomfort he has based on his sexual history appetite. If OP had said I prefer big booty bitches over big titty bitches, would that constitute big titty bitch shaming? NO. And FUCK NO. He prefers a more conservative sexual history from my read. I could be wrong but at least I kept it real. I kept it objective.

So how's that, clockwork? By the way Chas, disingenuity is a word. Remember I'm not American so I can actually spell.

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21-04-2015, 12:05 AM
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(19-04-2015 10:55 PM)Gilgamesh Wrote:  I was expecting there to be a shit storm about using rape as a comparative, ESPECIALLY if the context is watching it take place and not doing anything about it.

So basically your trying to cause a shit storm with the words you select, knowing in advance the effect they will have.

You know....every time I read something you have written I can't help but see that stereotypical little 14 year old dumb cunt yelling "faggot" over and over during a Halo match and masturbating to anime characters.

I'm sure you think of your self as some shock jock pushing the envelope but I assure you you are not. You're tedious and unoriginal.

@OP: My honest opinion is that you should break it off with her as quickly as you can. Mostly, however, because your a fucking idiot, insecure, man child and she sounds like a keeper and is better off with a person that can think about her worth as an individual beyond her lady bits and your petty desire to have ownership over them past present and future. You have zero say over her body NOW, let alone before she started dating you.

You are right in that you don't have the same morality. She seems like a strong self confidant woman who knows what she likes and your a self entitled, judgmental, insecure little man child that still thinks "morality" has something to do with a penis.

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