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25-07-2013, 01:43 AM
Straight People and Gay/Lesbian Porn
So, I reckon I got your attention.

Anyhow, I have oft wondered the Psychology and/or Sociology behind this one. Most heterosexual men seem to enjoy lesbian porn. I am counted among those. Doesn't even have to be real porn. I have been caught, very drunk mind you, staring at lesbians making out. Straight women on the other hand do not generally get turned on by two dudes going at it. At least not by admittance. Most women, from my experience, at least claim to find the idea of two dudes fucking to be sexually repulsive. Do not confuse this with moral repugnation (Yeah, I'm inventing my own word here).

So what is going on in the brain here? I think that psychology is the most important element at work here, however there is probably a cultural element going on here as well.

I would even go as far as hypothesizing that a statistically significant number of young women even go as far a homosexual acts to attract a heterosexual mates. I have no evidence to back that hypotheses, however there is less of a stigma attached to homosexual acts between women compared to men. Additionally, more women fess up to having performed homosexual acts than men. The latter statistic is almost certainly influenced by the former, but there are more bisexual and lesbian women than men, which may be affected in part by the hypothesis which I am making.

Anyone know of any reputable studies or research related to homosexual attraction by heterosexual men and women?

By the way, I am not implying that sexual attraction by anyone to anything is in anyway 'fake'.

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25-07-2013, 02:28 AM
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Crazy awesome topic and kudos for saying what kinda Porn you like. Not that it's a big deal. It's like pooping. If you're in the bathroom long enough, people know you're pooping. But as soon as someone says something to you.... "Go the F away!"
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25-07-2013, 03:13 AM (This post was last modified: 25-07-2013 03:16 AM by undergroundp.)
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I think my opinion as a woman who used to enjoy gay porn might interest you.

For the same reason that men enjoy lesbian porn, some women enjoy gay porn. Women like men, they like watching men, so having two hot guys going at might be sexy. However, there are some limits.

You may find many of these women (or girls) in the "circles" of Japanese rock music, as it is something like a "trend" for the members of the bands to pretend that they are gay, with the subsequent imaginations of fangirls turning into twisted fanfiction. I used to be one of those girls and every single one of my friends enjoyed reading such fanfiction, which led to us looking for Japanese gay porn. Now, the difference here is that the submissive partner was always more effeminate. I remember I didn't enjoy watching two macho men having sex, so it could very possibly be a social thing. I was a teenager back then and the whole thing gave me weird compulsions and thoughts, being attracted to effeminate males and fantasizing about them, while also feeling I wanted to play the part of a man in sex.

At the same time, there is man to woman dominance and submission, where, in the case of a man being submissive, he does not actually lose his masculinity. I think of it somehow as the same thing. Mind you though, I do not enjoy that anymore and I wonder why it just passed.

Also, there are actually many men who do not enjoy lesbian porn. I distinctly remember trying to force it to boyfriends to make them "normal". At the same time, there are many women who enjoy lesbian porn (I personally prefer it to straight).

But in the end, a woman wants a man to be a man, masculinity is something all men are struggling with. Remember that there are many women (including myself) that wouldn't mind having sex with a pretty girl. Even if they don't like it, they can easily pretend they do (I doubt you thought the girls in lesbian porn were lesbians). But for a guy to have sex with another guy when he is straight, well, most men wouldn't do it even if they got paid for it. I doubt it's because men would not enjoy the feeling (women enjoy it, so why not men?) and I feel it's mostly because of how people are raised. You must be a man, you must be macho, you must be dominant, you must not be humiliated. There are no such things for women, as far as sex is concerned.

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25-07-2013, 04:22 AM
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(25-07-2013 03:13 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  I distinctly remember trying to force it to boyfriends to make them "normal". At the same time, there are many women who enjoy lesbian porn (I personally prefer it to straight).

Wait, you forced porn on your boyfriends? You watch porn?

WHAT DAFUQ?

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25-07-2013, 04:30 AM
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(25-07-2013 04:22 AM)Logica Humano Wrote:  Wait, you forced porn on your boyfriends? You watch porn?

WHAT DAFUQ?

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...Yyyyes?

Why? Is it so weird? Well, now that I think about it most men watch porn and my friends don't. So I guess it's weird. Although yeah, there are many women who watch porn and many men who don't. Or at least men who don't enjoy lesbian porn.

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25-07-2013, 04:52 AM
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(25-07-2013 04:30 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  Why? Is it so weird? Well, now that I think about it most men watch porn and my friends don't. So I guess it's weird. Although yeah, there are many women who watch porn and many men who don't. Or at least men who don't enjoy lesbian porn.

I don't think it is weird, I am just blowing it out of proportion. I just didn't know women watched porn enough to accurately determine their preferences. Generally a lot of women get upset if they find out a man watches or has watched porn, at least in my experience. A few of my lady friends don't seem to care, but they also claim they don't watch it. Consider

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25-07-2013, 05:02 AM
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(25-07-2013 04:52 AM)Logica Humano Wrote:  I don't think it is weird, I am just blowing it out of proportion. I just didn't know women watched porn enough to accurately determine their preferences. Generally a lot of women get upset if they find out a man watches or has watched porn, at least in my experience. A few of my lady friends don't seem to care, but they also claim they don't watch it. Consider

Women watch porn, they just don't admit it. If you notice comments on videos in porn sites for example, you will see many women and what they say about it.

The reason women get upset about their boyfriends watching porn is because they believe that they are not enough for their boyfriends, that they are always looking for something better than them. My boyfriend has explained to me that watching it is just for fun and it does not mean that he wants to have sex with the girls on the screen (which makes sense, cause he makes some rather poor choices appearance-wise). We even watch it together.
Now, if a future boyfriend tells me that he watches porn because he would like to have sex with those girls, well, I believe I'd have a problem.

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25-07-2013, 05:06 AM
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(25-07-2013 05:02 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  Women watch porn, they just don't admit it. If you notice comments on videos in porn sites for example, you will see many women and what they say about it.

I really don't believe a lot of them are women.

(25-07-2013 05:02 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  The reason women get upset about their boyfriends watching porn is because they believe that they are not enough for their boyfriends, that they are always looking for something better than them. My boyfriend has explained to me that watching it is just for fun and it does not mean that he wants to have sex with the girls on the screen (which makes sense, cause he makes some rather poor choices appearance-wise).

Hm, yes, but I have not had a girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I am talking about my friends and their reactions. Quite a few of them still get upset.

(25-07-2013 05:02 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  We even watch it together.

Shocking I need to find me a woman like that.

(25-07-2013 05:02 AM)undergroundp Wrote:  Now, if a future boyfriend tells me that he watches porn because he would like to have sex with those girls, well, I believe I'd have a problem.

Yeah, I understand that. Big Grin

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25-07-2013, 05:12 AM
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(25-07-2013 05:06 AM)Logica Humano Wrote:  I really don't believe a lot of them are women.

Well, yeah, you might be right, but still, it's not the only way to see that women do watch porn.

(25-07-2013 05:06 AM)Logica Humano Wrote:  Hm, yes, but I have not had a girlfriend for almost 2 years now. I am talking about my friends and their reactions. Quite a few of them still get upset.

(25-07-2013 05:06 AM)Logica Humano Wrote:  Shocking I need to find me a woman like that.

Keep in mind that many women don't even know they like porn until they come in contact with it, but with good porn, not those shocking ads that pop up and scare you. There is another side of porn that most women don't even know. And when they find out, they may get addicted Evil_monster

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25-07-2013, 06:02 AM
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I am *not happy* with all these generalizations going on. Angry

Just about everything society considers "porn" doesn't do shit for me. Pix of my Gwynnies, however... Drooling

Oh! And, no.

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