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12-07-2017, 05:20 PM (This post was last modified: 12-07-2017 05:29 PM by JesseB.)
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
(12-07-2017 05:12 PM)jennybee Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 04:53 PM)JesseB Wrote:  An interesting point you make on so many levels.

I wish girls would flirt with me, I was kinda like you my ex wife was the first woman to ever show any real interest in me (and prolly the last lol). I hate flirting it's so confusing. Dating in general. Like how come a woman can't walk up to me with a baseball bat and slam me in the back of the head with it, when I come too I see written on the bat "Lets date, here's my number" Like I wouldn't have ANY trouble figuring that shit out then.... >.> really anything is better than the weird maze and hoops everyone seems to be jumping through.

Imo, as a woman, I think the best thing a guy can do to show a woman that he likes her is to just come out and tell her after a bit of playful banter, that is.

Back in my single days, I did the same thing. For instance, if there was a guy that I liked, and we were doing the whole playful teasing thing for awhile (and I thought there might be some interest on his part as well) I might look at him, smile, and say something like, "You have really sexy eyes." I mean you can't get any more blatant than that I don't think Wink And usually things would progress from there.

But I also did a whole thumb wrestling thing once with one of my guy friends just so I could grab him after (since I already had his thumb Laugh out load ) and kiss him Tongue Luckily, it worked to my awkward favor and he reciprocated. Then again maybe I'm not the best person to listen to in terms of flirting advice. Consider Hobo

Those are cute stories, I've actually had a few experiences kinda like that. But in general I am neither datable nor mateable material. More like a disgusting slug that just was discovered on your dinner, at least that's how most women act if I dare have the audacity to tell them I like them, or would like to go out with them. Regardless of our playful banter for days or weeks prior to my saying so. Not sure that works very well for most guys. I remember one girl still wanted to be friends. Like we always joked around n talked and all my friends would say stupid shit like, "Dude, I think she likes you" Even my friends that were women would say that. So I came clean with her, she was pretty standoffish, then started going on about the hottie sitting next to us in class like 10 min later. He was admittedly pretty cute, but I realized her "type" is a perfect body. I never spoke to her again, got up left the room and ignored her after that.

Edit^ She can go fuck herself. Since the hottie she was going on about also told her (politely) to go fuck herself that's prolly the only option she was left with. At least for a while.

Whenever I land a date it's never by playful banter or flirting. I just say, hey. I kinda like you (then I list things I noticed about her through our interactions), I'd like to go out with you. That one usually works better.

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12-07-2017, 05:30 PM
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
(12-07-2017 05:20 PM)JesseB Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 05:12 PM)jennybee Wrote:  Imo, as a woman, I think the best thing a guy can do to show a woman that he likes her is to just come out and tell her after a bit of playful banter, that is.

Back in my single days, I did the same thing. For instance, if there was a guy that I liked, and we were doing the whole playful teasing thing for awhile (and I thought there might be some interest on his part as well) I might look at him, smile, and say something like, "You have really sexy eyes." I mean you can't get any more blatant than that I don't think Wink And usually things would progress from there.

But I also did a whole thumb wrestling thing once with one of my guy friends just so I could grab him after (since I already had his thumb Laugh out load ) and kiss him Tongue Luckily, it worked to my awkward favor and he reciprocated. Then again maybe I'm not the best person to listen to in terms of flirting advice. Consider Hobo

Those are cute stories, I've actually had a few experiences kinda like that. But in general I am neither datable nor mateable material. More like a disgusting slug that just was discovered on your dinner, at least that's how most women act if I dare have the audacity to tell them I like them, or would like to go out with them. Regardless of our playful banter for days or weeks prior to my saying so. Not sure that works very well for most guys. I remember one girl still wanted to be friends. Like we always joked around n talked and all my friends would say stupid shit like, "Dude, I think she likes you" Even my friends that were women would say that. So I came clean with her, she was pretty standoffish, then started going on about the hottie sitting next to us in class like 10 min later. He was admittedly pretty cute, but I realized her "type" is a perfect body. I never spoke to her again, got up left the room and ignored her after that.

The best advice I could give is to work on yourself if you feel that way. And I'm not saying be America's Next Top Model either. I'm not going to lie--women do like guys that take care of themselves--same as men like women who take care of themselves physically. And you don't need to be a size two, but I do think in the dating game there needs to be that level of physical attraction to start you off. There needs to be a physical spark. And I'm speaking in the plural--not saying "you" personally. I'm saying in general, imo, I think if someone wants to attract a mate, it helps immensely to make yourself the best you you can be (physically and otherwise).

That said, I have dated some assholes who were all looks with nothing else to offer. So obviously a good personality is needed to go along with the physical. The biggest turn on for any woman is a man with confidence in himself and I'm not talking conceit, I'm talking confidence. There is a difference. When I see someone who's comfortable in their own skin--it's the sexiest thing ever. So since you refer to yourself as a slug, maybe work on building up your confidence and not letting a handful of women dictate how you should feel about yourself. Screw those bitches Wink

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12-07-2017, 05:39 PM
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
(12-07-2017 05:30 PM)jennybee Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 05:20 PM)JesseB Wrote:  Those are cute stories, I've actually had a few experiences kinda like that. But in general I am neither datable nor mateable material. More like a disgusting slug that just was discovered on your dinner, at least that's how most women act if I dare have the audacity to tell them I like them, or would like to go out with them. Regardless of our playful banter for days or weeks prior to my saying so. Not sure that works very well for most guys. I remember one girl still wanted to be friends. Like we always joked around n talked and all my friends would say stupid shit like, "Dude, I think she likes you" Even my friends that were women would say that. So I came clean with her, she was pretty standoffish, then started going on about the hottie sitting next to us in class like 10 min later. He was admittedly pretty cute, but I realized her "type" is a perfect body. I never spoke to her again, got up left the room and ignored her after that.

The best advice I could give is to work on yourself if you feel that way. And I'm not saying be America's Next Top Model either. I'm not going to lie--women do like guys that take care of themselves--same as men like women who take care of themselves physically. And you don't need to be a size two, but I do think in the dating game there needs to be that level of physical attraction to start you off. There needs to be a physical spark. And I'm speaking in the plural--not saying "you" personally. I'm saying in general, imo, I think if someone wants to attract a mate, it helps immensely to make yourself the best you you can be (physically and otherwise).

That said, I have dated some assholes who were all looks with nothing else to offer. So obviously a good personality is needed to go along with the physical. The biggest turn on for any woman is a man with confidence in himself and I'm not talking conceit, I'm talking confidence. There is a difference. When I see someone who's comfortable in their own skin--it's the sexiest thing ever. So since you refer to yourself as a slug, maybe work on building up your confidence and not letting a handful of women dictate how you should feel about yourself. Screw those bitches Wink

I don't wanna derail a fun thread so I'ma reply in PM. But I kinda agree with you on many of your points, I just don't think it's.... the full picture of what's goin on ya?

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12-07-2017, 05:46 PM
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
(12-07-2017 05:39 PM)JesseB Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 05:30 PM)jennybee Wrote:  The best advice I could give is to work on yourself if you feel that way. And I'm not saying be America's Next Top Model either. I'm not going to lie--women do like guys that take care of themselves--same as men like women who take care of themselves physically. And you don't need to be a size two, but I do think in the dating game there needs to be that level of physical attraction to start you off. There needs to be a physical spark. And I'm speaking in the plural--not saying "you" personally. I'm saying in general, imo, I think if someone wants to attract a mate, it helps immensely to make yourself the best you you can be (physically and otherwise).

That said, I have dated some assholes who were all looks with nothing else to offer. So obviously a good personality is needed to go along with the physical. The biggest turn on for any woman is a man with confidence in himself and I'm not talking conceit, I'm talking confidence. There is a difference. When I see someone who's comfortable in their own skin--it's the sexiest thing ever. So since you refer to yourself as a slug, maybe work on building up your confidence and not letting a handful of women dictate how you should feel about yourself. Screw those bitches Wink

I don't wanna derail a fun thread so I'ma reply in PM. But I kinda agree with you on many of your points, I just don't think it's.... the full picture of what's goin on ya?

I don't know you personally so that's why I was using the plural you and speaking more generally. I'm sure each individual person has other things that can impact getting into rships, etc. as you mentioned in your post.

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12-07-2017, 06:01 PM
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
(12-07-2017 05:46 PM)jennybee Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 05:39 PM)JesseB Wrote:  I don't wanna derail a fun thread so I'ma reply in PM. But I kinda agree with you on many of your points, I just don't think it's.... the full picture of what's goin on ya?

I don't know you personally so that's why I was using the plural you and speaking more generally. I'm sure each individual person has other things that can impact getting into rships, etc. as you mentioned in your post.

Ok so.... you know me better than you think. But.... does breaking into someone's house to have sex on their bed count as flirting? I think it's past the statute of limitations so.... lets just say my ex wife and I did some interesting things back when we were first together. Luckily the owner didn't come home to catch us, that would have been awkward.....

Though.... we also used to have sex at this little old lady's house when she would leave. My ex was there for some church missionary thing and would invite me over when the little old lady was away. More than a few times I was bolting for the bathroom carrying all my clothes before she got to the front door to try and cover up what we were really doing >.> Ahhhh kid life lol

That lady was funny she'd tell all kinda stories and every story ended with "He/she/they Diiiiiiiied" lol I'm sure she enjoyed the company of two young ppl to talk to it was clear she'd been living alone too long for her own good. But I digress.....

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12-07-2017, 07:30 PM
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
(12-07-2017 01:14 PM)jennybee Wrote:  For the people I've innocently flirted with on here, can you tell?
Thankfully, no one's flirted with me on here. Or if anyone has, it's gone over my head faster than a jet. Yes
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12-07-2017, 07:31 PM
RE: Terrible Flirt Thread
Similar thought, so not too far of a hijacking of thread, hopefully:

Bad pickup line response:

"Don't I know you from somewhere?"
"I don't know, do you watch a lot of porn?"

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12-07-2017, 07:38 PM
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(12-07-2017 07:30 PM)Clockwork Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 01:14 PM)jennybee Wrote:  For the people I've innocently flirted with on here, can you tell?
Or if anyone has, it's gone over my head faster than a jet. Yes

Apparently Dodgy Tongue

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12-07-2017, 07:40 PM
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(12-07-2017 01:14 PM)jennybee Wrote:  For the people I've innocently flirted with on here, can you tell?

I'll admit I contemplated putting up a topless workout video when you brought it up, but just recording one would make me feel douchey Consider

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12-07-2017, 07:43 PM
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(12-07-2017 07:40 PM)yakherder Wrote:  
(12-07-2017 01:14 PM)jennybee Wrote:  For the people I've innocently flirted with on here, can you tell?

I'll admit I contemplated putting up a topless workout video when you brought it up, but just recording one would make me feel douchey Consider

Yes, but like I told you before, it's for science Angel Wink You know so we can see how all the muscles of the body work Big Grin I certainly wasn't going to use it for anything else, for shame! Tongue

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