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29-09-2015, 09:09 AM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
Simply hearing people laugh is making me cry today. It reminds me that I was once happy and makes me fear that I'll never be happy again.

Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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29-09-2015, 09:15 AM
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(29-09-2015 09:09 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  Simply hearing people laugh is making me cry today. It reminds me that I was once happy and makes me fear that I'll never be happy again.

Um... Dude, why're you down? Are you able to identify a reason - I ask because depro people sometimes can't, or may misidentify it anyway...

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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29-09-2015, 09:18 AM
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(29-09-2015 09:15 AM)morondog Wrote:  
(29-09-2015 09:09 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  Simply hearing people laugh is making me cry today. It reminds me that I was once happy and makes me fear that I'll never be happy again.

Um... Dude, why're you down? Are you able to identify a reason - I ask because depro people sometimes can't, or may misidentify it anyway...

Depression, relationship drama, losing my dad, asshole boss... take your pick.

Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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29-09-2015, 09:23 AM
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(29-09-2015 09:09 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  Simply hearing people laugh is making me cry today. It reminds me that I was once happy and makes me fear that I'll never be happy again.

Hug It just takes some time. It took me a long time to feel happy again after my dad passed away. I still miss him so much, but now I can look back on fond memories of him with a smile, whereas before I couldn't even do that without bursting into tears. I also know my dad would want me to live my life and be happy. Of course, I miss him every day--but I know he would not want me spending my days in tears.

You have every right to feel the way you do right now--everything is so raw. You will never forget him--but it will get easier to deal with as time goes on.

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29-09-2015, 09:27 AM
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(29-09-2015 09:23 AM)jennybee Wrote:  
(29-09-2015 09:09 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  Simply hearing people laugh is making me cry today. It reminds me that I was once happy and makes me fear that I'll never be happy again.

Hug It just takes some time. It took me a long time to feel happy again after my dad passed away. I still miss him so much, but now I can look back on fond memories of him with a smile, whereas before I couldn't even do that without bursting into tears. I also know my dad would want me to live my life and be happy. Of course, I miss him every day--but I know he would not want me spending my days in tears.

You have every right to feel the way you do right now--everything is so raw. You will never forget him--but it will get easier to deal with as time goes on.

Right now, I'd settle for being a functional human being again.

Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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29-09-2015, 09:28 AM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(29-09-2015 09:27 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  
(29-09-2015 09:23 AM)jennybee Wrote:  Hug It just takes some time. It took me a long time to feel happy again after my dad passed away. I still miss him so much, but now I can look back on fond memories of him with a smile, whereas before I couldn't even do that without bursting into tears. I also know my dad would want me to live my life and be happy. Of course, I miss him every day--but I know he would not want me spending my days in tears.

You have every right to feel the way you do right now--everything is so raw. You will never forget him--but it will get easier to deal with as time goes on.

Right now, I'd settle for being a functional human being again.

I know I felt the same way. PM me if you need to talk Heart

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29-09-2015, 09:30 AM
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Ah. Well, it can take a lot of time to work through that stuff. I personally have found no remedy *other* than time, which fixes me. Sorry you're down amigo Hug It will get better in time, partly some of that is under your control, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. Also, it's OK to feel down sometimes, sadness is a valid emotion.

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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29-09-2015, 10:27 AM
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(29-09-2015 09:30 AM)morondog Wrote:  Ah. Well, it can take a lot of time to work through that stuff. I personally have found no remedy *other* than time, which fixes me. Sorry you're down amigo Hug It will get better in time, partly some of that is under your control, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. Also, it's OK to feel down sometimes, sadness is a valid emotion.

I think I'll go curl up in a ball and wish I didn't exist until that happens.

Meds aren't helping. Talking just makes me hurt more.

Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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29-09-2015, 10:29 AM
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(29-09-2015 10:27 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  
(29-09-2015 09:30 AM)morondog Wrote:  Ah. Well, it can take a lot of time to work through that stuff. I personally have found no remedy *other* than time, which fixes me. Sorry you're down amigo Hug It will get better in time, partly some of that is under your control, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. Also, it's OK to feel down sometimes, sadness is a valid emotion.

I think I'll go curl up in a ball and wish I didn't exist until that happens.

Meds aren't helping. Talking just makes me hurt more.

more hugs then Hug

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29-09-2015, 10:47 AM
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(29-09-2015 10:27 AM)itsnotmeitsyou Wrote:  
(29-09-2015 09:30 AM)morondog Wrote:  Ah. Well, it can take a lot of time to work through that stuff. I personally have found no remedy *other* than time, which fixes me. Sorry you're down amigo Hug It will get better in time, partly some of that is under your control, even if it doesn't feel like it right now. Also, it's OK to feel down sometimes, sadness is a valid emotion.

I think I'll go curl up in a ball and wish I didn't exist until that happens.

Meds aren't helping. Talking just makes me hurt more.

I was just going to +1 your rep for being so kind to the new member yesterday, when I got there I realized I already have given you a +1.

just know, that you do bring happiness to others just by being you.


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