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09-03-2016, 01:16 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(07-03-2016 05:22 AM)JDog554 Wrote:  
(06-03-2016 09:39 PM)Atothetheist Wrote:  My friends hurt me, and I keep taking it because they are all I have right now.

Sometimes, it's better to have nothing than something bad. At least with nothing you don't have anything to keep you from making things better. Hang in there, you are a great guy and will meet people who can be real friends to you. Sure you already have many here including me Smile

(07-03-2016 04:41 AM)adey67 Wrote:  My divorce papers came through on Saturday. Thankfully neither of us are using lawyers so the costs should be minimal. I've sent the forms back today. It feels kinda weird like my stomach feels hollow but all in all I don't feel too bad, better than expected.

As in we don't know what we are going to do without but sure wanna find out
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09-03-2016, 02:17 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(09-03-2016 01:16 PM)DerFish Wrote:  
(07-03-2016 05:22 AM)JDog554 Wrote:  Sometimes, it's better to have nothing than something bad. At least with nothing you don't have anything to keep you from making things better. Hang in there, you are a great guy and will meet people who can be real friends to you. Sure you already have many here including me Smile

As in we don't know what we are going to do without but sure wanna find out

No more marriages or relationships that's for sure mate, ladies of the night for me from now on that's for sure Big Grin
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09-03-2016, 02:20 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(09-03-2016 01:16 PM)DerFish Wrote:  
(07-03-2016 05:22 AM)JDog554 Wrote:  Sometimes, it's better to have nothing than something bad. At least with nothing you don't have anything to keep you from making things better. Hang in there, you are a great guy and will meet people who can be real friends to you. Sure you already have many here including me Smile

As in we don't know what we are going to do without but sure wanna find out

You know, easier to move forward without something constantly knocking you back.

"If you keep trying to better yourself that's enough for me. We don't decide which hand we are dealt in life, but we make the decision to play it or fold it" - Nishi Karano Kaze
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09-03-2016, 02:21 PM
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(09-03-2016 01:11 PM)Clockwork Wrote:  Had a lot happen, but the fuzzy tripod, Lucky, died.

He was a rescue cat that needed two surgeries to amputate his left arm. Never slowed him down.

I'll miss him.

Sad Hug
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09-03-2016, 03:13 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(09-03-2016 01:11 PM)Clockwork Wrote:  Had a lot happen, but the fuzzy tripod, Lucky, died.

He was a rescue cat that needed two surgeries to amputate his left arm. Never slowed him down.

I'll miss him.

So sorry Hug

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09-03-2016, 03:41 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(09-03-2016 02:17 PM)adey67 Wrote:  
(09-03-2016 01:16 PM)DerFish Wrote:  As in we don't know what we are going to do without but sure wanna find out

No more marriages or relationships that's for sure mate, ladies of the night for me from now on that's for sure Big Grin

I will not go without a live in love, as I will not go without a car. But women are a lot like buses, one goes and eaves you and another will be along in 20 minutes. The one night at a time ones are very expensive, whether you are paying cash or just buying drinks and drinks for yourself. You can become an alcoholic in short order. Been there done that!
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09-03-2016, 03:48 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
Youse guys are just bitter and twisted. Ladies are the frikken *business* Yes

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(06-02-2014 03:47 PM)Momsurroundedbyboys Wrote:  And I'm giving myself a conclusion again from all the facepalming.
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09-03-2016, 05:27 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(09-03-2016 01:11 PM)Clockwork Wrote:  Had a lot happen, but the fuzzy tripod, Lucky, died.

He was a rescue cat that needed two surgeries to amputate his left arm. Never slowed him down.

I'll miss him.

Hug

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09-03-2016, 06:01 PM
RE: The Official Crying Thread
(09-03-2016 01:11 PM)Clockwork Wrote:  Had a lot happen, but the fuzzy tripod, Lucky, died.

He was a rescue cat that needed two surgeries to amputate his left arm. Never slowed him down.

I'll miss him.

So sorry. Sad

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13-03-2016, 08:28 PM
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So this is more of a whine than anything else I suppose, but it hurts as well, so it fits with the crying thing...

Anyway, Rev and I were talking tonight and he touched on something that I've been afraid of for a while now. I started writing fiction back in, oh 2010 or so I believe and that's when I started my deconversion process too and also realizing that my marriage was not at all good and that I wanted something else.

Writing was an escape but I also reached a point where I thought I was pretty good at it and that maybe it was my thing, you know... my purpose in life. I am a writer, I thought - I should write. I never knew as a kid what I wanted to be when I grew up, so hitting this moment of "oh this is what I should do" was a powerful moment for me. It felt really nice.

Fast forward to when I fully deconverted and started making plans to leave my ex-husband. Life just got in the way of the writing and I have not been able to truly pick it back up since. Nothing flows, I have no real ideas to speak of, it's just... gone. I worried that maybe writing had just been a thing to get me out of a bad situation (god belief, bad marriage, etc.) and that that was the entirety of its purpose. But the idea that that could be true is really painful.

So if not writing, what is my purpose then? The kids? No. I can't do that. I won't make my life about people who will grow up and be gone one day. I'm not going to do what I see so many other mothers do who make their lives about their kids and then when their kids are gone they feel they have nothing. But I guess I went and did the same thing with my writing and apparently it's gone and what do I have now? My pathetic little job at an insurance company for the rest of my life and die and that's it? Fucking INSURANCE? It's just very sad and pathetic. I thought I was going to do something to make a difference or help people (even if just by writing characters they could relate to) and instead this is it?

I haven't felt this purposeless since I admitted to myself that I no longer believed in god.

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