The life of a lonely man
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22-12-2016, 05:55 AM
RE: The life of a lonely man
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29-12-2016, 09:52 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
(22-12-2016 05:42 AM)viocjit Wrote:  
(17-12-2016 08:40 AM)Ohio Sky Wrote:  I'm not sure how difficult it is to see a physician in France, but based off of the mood of your other posts in this thread this may be a symptom of depression. It's very common for folks to fall into a depression at your age when they're having trouble realizing or reaching their goals as an adult.

Whatever the case, I hope it improves for you. Sounds like you've been struggling for a few years now with not much movement. I can sympathize. I grew up in a tiny mountain town where you were lucky to find a minimum wage job. That place was like a black hole that ate hope instead of light. There were no educational opportunities to better yourself to try to move out of that town. Everyone who left ended up coming back before long. I was lucky enough to get offered a position in a specialty field an hour away and was able to commute while I saved up to move. Now I'm clear across the country from there and as much as I love it where I'm at, I know no one here. It gets harder and harder to meet people the older you get. Hang in there. There is almost always a light at the end of the tunnel.

Thanks for your message. I did already saw a physician.
The place in which I live is far to be a rural area.
It's an urban zone with nothing to do and nothing to make.
There are places to buy what you need.
I'm not far of Paris and it is easy to access but I go rarely there.
What can I do in Paris except buy things and eat in restaurants , bars and the like ?

I don't want to buy things there because Amazon is better (more products than in a physical place) and I don't want to take public transportation to eat in Paris (I will waste calorie earned to the restaurant and I'll be a bit tired when I will be back).

Yeah, I hear you. I was a 2-3 hour drive from Los Angeles for most of my life and only went there a few times because even though they have everything there, the traffic and cost just took all the fun out of it. But if you're that close to Paris, it may be a viable option to commute there if you can find a good job or something. You may make more money and meet some new people.

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31-12-2016, 03:39 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
(29-12-2016 09:52 PM)Ohio Sky Wrote:  
(22-12-2016 05:42 AM)viocjit Wrote:  <snip by viocjit>

Yeah, I hear you. I was a 2-3 hour drive from Los Angeles for most of my life and only went there a few times because even though they have everything there, the traffic and cost just took all the fun out of it. But if you're that close to Paris, it may be a viable option to commute there if you can find a good job or something. You may make more money and meet some new people.

I have all things I need (About things to buy) in the place in which I live.
Find a good job by commuting. It is an idea that interest me.
Unhappily commute won't be useful to find an employment in my situation.
I haven't diplomas necessary to find a job. In France we ask a diploma for nearly every positions available. I don't think in USA , UK , Australia , NZ and Canada we ask a diploma to be a cleaner , dustman , barman and others non-qualified jobs.
In France the majority of CEO (chief executive officer) ask people with a diploma for these positions. It does exist a diploma for nearly each jobs.
I will do and make the necessary to get others diplomas when I'll get my driving licence because my diplomas are useless.
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06-03-2017, 08:10 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
NEW : I'm still doing training to get "Épreuve Théorique général du permis de conduire" or "General Theoretical Test Driving Licence" that is something certifying you know code de la route (Litt : Code of the road , Understandable English : Traffic code) in order to get a driving license to drive cars.

I began training to get a DNB (diplôme national du brevet / diploma of national certificate) as a candidat libre (Litt : Free candidate , Understandable English : external candidate or independent candidate).

The list below contain diplomas equivalent or similar to DNB in the main English speaking countries.
Australia : Not found
Canada : Not found
Republic of Ireland : Junior Certificate (Irish : Teastas Sóisearach)
New Zealand : Not found
UK : GCSE under C grade (general certificate of secondary education)
USA : Not found

Usually , we pass this diploma at the end of 3ème.
It is the equivalent of Year 10 or Ninth grade. (Accorded to countries)

Also , I began training to get a baccalauréat général (general baccalaureate) as a candidat libre (Litt : Free candidate , Understandable English : external candidate or independent candidate .
I don't know which séries (Litt : Series , Understandable English : Specialities) to choose between ES (économique & social / economic & social) , L (littéraire / literacy) and S (scientifique / scientific).

The list below contain diplomas equivalent or similar to baccalauréat général in the main English speaking countries.
Australia : High School Certificate (HSC)
Canada : Canadian Diploma Certificate of Education (CDCE) more known under the name of High School Diploma.
Canada (British Columbia) : British Columbia Certificate of Graduation
Canada (Ontario) : Ontario Secondary School Diploma
Canada (Quebec) : HS Diploma/Diplôme D.E.S.
Republic of Ireland : Leaving Certificate Examinations (Irish : Scrúduithe na hArdteistiméireachta)
New Zealand : National Certificate of Educational Achievement (NCEA)
UK : A-Level
USA : High School Diploma
USA (New York State) : Regents Diploma
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13-04-2017, 06:44 PM
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NEWS : Soon , I'll travel in a foreign country for the first time of my life.
I'm 23 years and it will be my first travel alone.
This travel will take place in Belgium near Brussels to open a bank account.

Total duration of travel : Less than 24 hours
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13-04-2017, 06:50 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
(13-04-2017 06:44 PM)viocjit Wrote:  NEWS : Soon , I'll travel in a foreign country for the first time of my life.
I'm 23 years and it will be my first travel alone.
This travel will take place in Belgium near Brussels to open a bank account.

Total duration of travel : Less than 24 hours

Enjoy yourself I hope you have fun. I'm 50 and I've never been to a foreign country.
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13-04-2017, 06:57 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
(13-04-2017 06:50 PM)pablo Wrote:  
(13-04-2017 06:44 PM)viocjit Wrote:  NEWS : Soon , I'll travel in a foreign country for the first time of my life.
I'm 23 years and it will be my first travel alone.
This travel will take place in Belgium near Brussels to open a bank account.

Total duration of travel : Less than 24 hours

Enjoy yourself I hope you have fun. I'm 50 and I've never been to a foreign country.
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Can we know why you did never been to a foreign country ?

PS : Please , don't answer if you don't want to do it.
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16-04-2017, 01:32 AM
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(12-08-2013 04:31 PM)viocjit Wrote:  Who I'm ? My name is Anthony I'm 19 years old and I'm from France and I live in the main region of this country (Isle of France or Île-De-France in French language).
I live in a fucking (excuse me for the word) neighbourhood where there are nothing to do and nothing to make.
Except speak with friends but I lose the contact with the majority of them because we didn't studied the same things. The majority of them studied in a "Lycée Général" (College). I studied in a "Lycée Professionnelle" (Vocation school). For this reason I lose contact with them like I had a busy schedule. People that I met in my vocation school live very far of my city.
Each holidays this is the same thing.
I leave my home only when I must :
1.Empty rubbishes.
2.Buy something at the grocery store.
3.Buy something at the pharmacy.
4.Buy bred at the baker.

Also I leave my home when I can see my grandparents.
I missed my "Bac Pro" (BTEC National Diploma). I will try to obtain a job in September. But if I can't find a job ? that means few social interactions again and again.

Pretty sure we're all lonely men. Welcome to the club haha, my advice, try not to let it get to you. It is what it is and I doubt there's a damn thing you can do to change it (if you don't me wait till your first divorce, you'll understand) Then again I'm an ass and pretty foul right now lol.

Oh and don't apologize for saying fuck ok? You are safe here.

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20-04-2017, 01:23 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
(16-04-2017 01:32 AM)JesseB Wrote:  
(12-08-2013 04:31 PM)viocjit Wrote:  This part was snipped by viocjit
Pretty sure we're all lonely men. Welcome to the club haha, my advice, try not to let it get to you. It is what it is and I doubt there's a damn thing you can do to change it (if you don't me wait till your first divorce, you'll understand) Then again I'm an ass and pretty foul right now lol.

Oh and don't apologize for saying fuck ok? You are safe here.

I excused myself because we are on a public forum and we have the time to think before send what we write.
It's not like we were having a conversation face to face when word come spontaneously.

NEWS : I did my first long distance travel alone and my first travel in a foreign country.
It was in Belgium near Brussels.
I can't open the bank account because I don't live in Belgium and I'm not working there.
You must to fill one of these two conditions or both to have the right to open a current account in this country accorded to the person I met.

When I'll take the appointment with my phone.
I warned them about the fact I'm a French non-living in Belgium but the person on the line didn't asked me if I'm working there.

Who know a country in Euro-zone in which a Foreigner not living and not working in this country can open a transaction account ?

The positive point of this travel is the next.
I know how to go there and others places abroad from the hub used to go in Belgium.
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30-05-2017, 01:24 PM
RE: The life of a lonely man
NEW : I'm still doing training to get "Épreuve Théorique général du permis de conduire" or "General Theoretical Test Driving Licence" that is something certifying you know code de la route (Litt : Code of the road , Understandable English : Traffic code) in order to get a driving license to drive cars.

I'm still doing training to get a DNB (diplôme national du brevet / diploma of national certificate) as a candidat libre (Litt : Free candidate , Understandable English : external candidate or independent candidate).

The list below contain diplomas equivalent or similar to DNB in the main English speaking countries.
Australia : Not found
Canada : Not found
Republic of Ireland : Junior Certificate (Irish : Teastas Sóisearach)
New Zealand : Not found
UK : GCSE under C grade (general certificate of secondary education)
USA : Not found

Usually , we pass this diploma at the end of 3ème.
It is the equivalent of Year 10 or Ninth grade. (Accorded to countries)

I'm still doing training to get a baccalauréat général (general baccalaureate) as a candidat libre (Litt : Free candidate , Understandable English : external candidate or independent candidate).
Now , I know which séries (Litt : Series , Understandable English : Specialities) to choose between ES (économique & social / economic & social) , L (littéraire / literacy) and S (scientifique / scientific).
I let you guess my choice.

The list below contain diplomas equivalent or similar to baccalauréat général in the main English speaking countries.
Australia : High School Certificate (HSC)
Canada : Canadian Diploma Certificate of Education (CDCE) more known under the name of High School Diploma.
Canada (British Columbia) : British Columbia Certificate of Graduation
Canada (Ontario) : Ontario Secondary School Diploma
Canada (Quebec) : HS Diploma/Diplôme D.E.S.
Republic of Ireland : Leaving Certificate Examinations (Irish : Scrúduithe na hArdteistiméireachta)
New Zealand : National Certificate of Educational Achievement (NCEA)
UK : A-Level
USA : High School Diploma
USA (New York State) : Regents Diploma

I'm thinking about becoming a casino dealer.
I want to register myself to a professional training.

Why I want to be a casino dealer ?

The majority of jobs with a good pay are unreachable to me because of my low level of education (This is why I want to get my DNB and the baccalauréat général).
Also , I'd like to travel around the world and this job can be practiced nearly everywhere.
I know I won't win a lot of money even if there are tips but it can be a good personal and professional experience.

Study is long. I don't know really what to do after I get my baccalauréat général but I'm thinking about get a licence (Bachelor's degree in English speaking country. You get it generally three years after you get your French baccalaureate) then maybe a master (Masters' degree in English speaking countries. We get it two years after we get a license otherwise we get it five years after we get the French baccalaureate) and why not a doctorat (PhD in English speaking countries for the majority of doctorat equivalent. You can get it generally three years after you get your master's degree otherwise you get it generally eight years after the French baccalaureate).

I have dreams and I want to do things in order to realise these :
http://www.thethinkingatheist.com/forum/...urs-dreams
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