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10-10-2013, 05:44 PM (This post was last modified: 10-10-2013 05:53 PM by Cathym112.)
RE: Virginity
Because to be the second husband, she isn't a virgin anymore as compared to polygamy where each one would be a virgin.

Unless of course, you are referring to male virginity.

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10-10-2013, 05:48 PM
RE: Virginity
(10-10-2013 05:44 PM)Cathym112 Wrote:  Because to be the second husband, she isn't a virgin anymore as compared to polygamy where each one would be a virgin.

Unless of course, you are referring to make virginity.

In those cultures fertility is much prefered. A woman who has already had several children is seen as the height of attractiveness.

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10-10-2013, 05:52 PM
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Follow the logic. Use your brain. You can't value chastity and virginity in a polyandry relationship as it relates to female virginity, where it's a given that the wife will not only not be a virgin, but have continuous sexual relations with the other men.

This was common for the preservation of family property where paternity wasn't important and the land wouldn't be divided in the same ways if each brother were marry a different woman with his separate children. It wasn't about women as property of men.

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10-10-2013, 05:54 PM
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But let's bring it back to topic, please.

Does valuing virginity devalue women?

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10-10-2013, 05:56 PM
RE: Virginity
(10-10-2013 05:44 PM)Cathym112 Wrote:  Because to be the second husband, she isn't a virgin anymore as compared to polygamy where each one would be a virgin.

Unless of course, you are referring to make virginity.

Just because she isn't a virgin any more doesn't mean the man won't find her attractive or find her valuable.

She could be a really good cook for instance. Now if she were a virgin and a really good cook that would be the bomb....but non-virgin...if she's hot....and good cook..thats not so bad.

I just don't see your logic in concluding the polyandrous cultures must place no value in virginity.

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10-10-2013, 06:01 PM
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(10-10-2013 05:54 PM)Cathym112 Wrote:  But let's bring it back to topic, please.

Does valuing virginity devalue women?

Nope.

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10-10-2013, 07:21 PM
RE: Virginity
(10-10-2013 05:52 PM)Cathym112 Wrote:  Follow the logic. Use your brain. You can't value chastity and virginity in a polyandry relationship as it relates to female virginity, where it's a given that the wife will not only not be a virgin, but have continuous sexual relations with the other men.

This was common for the preservation of family property where paternity wasn't important and the land wouldn't be divided in the same ways if each brother were marry a different woman with his separate children. It wasn't about women as property of men.

Again, heywood. You can't value virginity f you know that not only will she not be a virgin, but she will be having sex with multiple people.
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10-10-2013, 07:32 PM
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Further, I'm not referring to your individual preference. I'm talking about society and culture in general.

Also - your personal preference says more about YOU than it does the virgin. It says you are easily threatened and have low confidence of your abilities. Easy to impress someone with no experience. Can't say you suck in the sack if she has no frame of reference to which to measure you by.

Additionally, psychologists observe those who want to have sex with virgins have an inappropriate relationships and views regarding children since the virgin is not considered his equal but his subordinate. Parent/child, teacher/student, etc. Like a woman that has daddy issues, a man that wants to destroy innocence who has daddy daughter issues with huge ego problems.

So, heywood, you wanna fuck a virgin, that's fine, but it makes you almost creepy.

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10-10-2013, 07:43 PM (This post was last modified: 10-10-2013 08:02 PM by Bucky Ball.)
RE: Virginity
Yes.
Virginity devalues ("as in lowers the value of") everyone with that status.
Who in hell would want to mess with someone with no experience ?
Virgins are worthless.
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10-10-2013, 08:04 PM
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(10-10-2013 07:32 PM)Cathym112 Wrote:  Further, I'm not referring to your individual preference. I'm talking about society and culture in general.

Also - your personal preference says more about YOU than it does the virgin. It says you are easily threatened and have low confidence of your abilities. Easy to impress someone with no experience. Can't say you suck in the sack if she has no frame of reference to which to measure you by.

Additionally, psychologists observe those who want to have sex with virgins have an inappropriate relationships and views regarding children since the virgin is not considered his equal but his subordinate. Parent/child, teacher/student, etc. Like a woman that has daddy issues, a man that wants to destroy innocence who has daddy daughter issues with huge ego problems.

So, heywood, you wanna fuck a virgin, that's fine, but it makes you almost creepy.

I like to get the first scoop of ice cream out of the carton too.....what does that say about me? Virginity is valued because people like to be first....and there is an advantage to being first. With sex you don't have to worry about getting the herpe or some other sex trophy.

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