What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
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19-10-2017, 01:00 AM
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
(19-10-2017 12:37 AM)Chas Wrote:  
(18-10-2017 11:28 PM)GirlyMan Wrote:  He does need to need to realize going in that she's not gonna be as good in bed as a good Catholic girl.

You might be over-generalizing there. Consider

You're a crafty old honey badger. Big Grin

#sigh
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19-10-2017, 02:01 AM (This post was last modified: 19-10-2017 02:15 AM by Thumpalumpacus.)
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
(18-10-2017 04:28 AM)jennybee Wrote:  This question came up in the Truth or Dare thread, so thought I'd throw it out to the forum. Since many of us are from ex-religious backgrounds and some are from religious backgrounds, how much do you feel that impacted or impacts your number? The other question we talked about in the T and D thread: Is there a certain bed post number you have in your head that you secretly judge someone for?

I'll go first:

My Bed Post number: 4

I don't think religion played any role in my number but I do think it played a role in my level of enjoyment during sex because afterward, I would feel so guilty for having sex before marriage.

I don't have a number that I would secretly judge someone for because we get one life and I think each person should do what makes them happy. That said, I personally prefer if the person I'm with hasn't been with a ton of people. I'm not into one night stands or fuck friends and I'm picky about who I sleep with, so I'm hoping the guy I'm with would be that way too.

Even though I like to joke around about sex, it's something I save for a long term relationship with someone I'm in love with and who's my best friend. This isn't religious based either. I just like to be in love and trust someone completely when I get it on, I just feel it makes the sex better, imo.

Religion never played a role in my sex life -- I was an atheist before I lost my virginity. I've never been into dalliances, though, so my count is pretty low for a guy my age -- eight, by best count.

I've had sex with gals I didn't really love. I don't do that any more.

(18-10-2017 08:44 AM)jennybee Wrote:  How many would someone have to sleep with for you to secretly judge them?

As far as this goes, I can't be bothered to care. When my son's mom and I met and started dating, she warned me that she "was a slut". I shrugged and told her she was my slut now -- problem solved.

Yes, we both were tested.

(18-10-2017 09:16 AM)DLJ Wrote:  Oppressed catholic girls are by far the easiest, most grateful (and easiest to convert).

No one sins quite like a Catholic gal. Smile
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19-10-2017, 02:19 AM
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
(18-10-2017 10:31 AM)Gawdzilla Wrote:  Two life-long friends, who I call "Bert and Ernie" were rugged he-men types, survivalists, gun ... aficionados, Harley riders. I accused them of being gay more than once, just to get a fight started.

Last year they got married. To each other. I didn't even bother to smirk.

Now they live in an enclave in Wyoming and there's a bear wintering under their deck where the hot tub is. Fish and Wildlife told them how to live with the bear, mostly by conceding that the bear had the right of way.

Two Bears and a Bear ... sounds like a sitcom to me.
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19-10-2017, 02:27 AM
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(18-10-2017 01:16 PM)The Organic Chemist Wrote:  I have you beat.

So, I was gonna type something witty, but ...
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19-10-2017, 02:39 AM
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(18-10-2017 03:43 PM)Eagle Wrote:  [...] I want no one to have ever had my woman!

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I used to sleep around before I was saved, so none of us are perfect unfortunately.

Cheers! Smile

How cute ... another hypocrite swinging the Cross. Awwww.

Sorry to say, your imperfections are glowing right now.
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19-10-2017, 02:53 AM
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
(18-10-2017 04:05 PM)Eagle Wrote:  I care if she slept around because it's easy for a woman to sleep around, not so easy for a man, and I want to possess a woman physically and not have to share her.

If that upsets you, sorry, but really, most woman want a man to 'own' her.

I know you like books and stuff: psychologists have often spoke about how women have a mixture of wanting to be adored and to be used. It's pretty simple: She wants to be adored physically (as a man wants her) ie narcissism and also at the same time to serve her man (submission).

You should try Christian BDSM then (google it, I'd give a link but I am at work). Being safe, sane and consensual with safewords it means that you can avoid being an abusive husband / boyfriend while acting out your abusive and sadistic fantasies.
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19-10-2017, 02:54 AM
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Well it looks like I missed all the fun with our knuckle dragging troglodyte feathered friend.
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19-10-2017, 03:19 AM (This post was last modified: 19-10-2017 03:24 AM by Mathilda.)
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
(18-10-2017 05:11 PM)SYZ Wrote:  
(18-10-2017 04:05 PM)Eagle Wrote:  I care if she slept around because it's easy for a woman to sleep around, not so easy for a man, and I want to possess a woman physically and not have to share her.

No. It's just as "easy" (whatever that means?) for a man to have slept around as it is for a woman. You don't seem to understand that the sexual proclivities of contemporary males and females are identical. In actuality, it's probable that men are more likely to have bed-hopped.

More like it's much easier for most women to have slept around than it is for Eagle. For some strange unknown reason, women don't seem to want to sleep with him. Presumably something about him is putting them off ...
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19-10-2017, 05:50 AM (This post was last modified: 19-10-2017 05:59 AM by M. Linoge.)
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
Zero. No cuts on any of my furniture legs.
Has nothing to do with religion. In part; When I was young people kinda put me off it by either being prudes or... the opposite. My (girl) friend kept telling me to find someone really broken - apparently that's better and/or easier - and just 'get it over with'.
Didn't feel right. I never was much of a joiner.

I've had opportunities in and outside of a relationship but I never went for it. (And that's not bragging, it only proves my earlier statement that some people have neither taste nor standards.)
The real reason - I think; Arousal is one of those things about me that's weird. I used to have terrible trouble sleeping at night. Tried everything, counted 4800 sheep jumping over a bush once before shelving that permanently. Then came the age when you start to think about naked people, and three.. two.. one.. zzzzz

And no, I didn't masturbate, merely thinking about nudes lulled me to unconsciousness in a matter of minutes (where hours of rehashing homework failed, porn prevailed).
I already knew I wasn't designed for company, so I took this as a further sign I wasn't designed for physical intimacy either.

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19-10-2017, 06:19 AM
RE: What is your Bed Post Notch Number?
(19-10-2017 05:50 AM)M. Linoge Wrote:  Zero. No cuts on any of my furniture legs.
Has nothing to do with religion. In part; When I was young people kinda put me off it by either being prudes or... the opposite. My (girl) friend kept telling me to find someone really broken - apparently that's better and/or easier - and just 'get it over with'.
Didn't feel right. I never was much of a joiner.

I've had opportunities in and outside of a relationship but I never went for it. (And that's not bragging, it only proves my earlier statement that some people have neither taste nor standards.)
The real reason - I think; Arousal is one of those things about me that's weird. I used to have terrible trouble sleeping at night. Tried everything, counted 4800 sheep jumping over a bush once before shelving that permanently. Then came the age when you start to think about naked people, and three.. two.. one.. zzzzz

And no, I didn't masturbate, merely thinking about nudes lulled me to unconsciousness in a matter of minutes (where hours of rehashing homework failed, porn prevailed).
I already knew I wasn't designed for company, so I took this as a further sign I wasn't designed for physical intimacy either.


Maybe you're asexual? I'm probably a romantic asexual myself in that I want o be in a relationship, I like the company, the intimacy and the hugs but have no sex drive.

I have tried masturbating in the past but it doesn't do anything for me.
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