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12-08-2014, 12:51 PM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
(12-08-2014 12:42 PM)Wicked Clown Wrote:  I'm not exactly an atheist but I believe very much that atheists and agnostics have an extremely good argument for why the Bible sucks and Religion is some of the worst shit that's ever happened to this world,so I wouldn't see conflict or deal breaker with an atheist at least and not over religious views.

I think if an atheist and a theist are truly in love, by the meaning of the word love, the difference shouldn't be a deal breaker until one person begins to insist that the others soul is in jeopardy.

one might need to find out what is a Theists views are in regards to salvation, and if their views are such that you are going to lose your soul if you persevere in atheism, then there will definitely be a dealbreaker down the road.


But one should know the other's affiliation before going too far into the relationship. In other words, if a guy tells me he is Christian or any other religious affiliation, no need to go further.

The world views would be pretty far and wide apart. I'm not interested in listening to the regurgitation of Bible bullshit either so...deal breaker! Tongue

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12-08-2014, 01:01 PM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
what if they promised you that their regurgitation of Scripture would be like taking a shit. Never do it in the same room that you are in and have no intention of you getting a whiff of it? Smile
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12-08-2014, 01:09 PM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
Hmmm. If he's hot...maybe Big Grin

In all seriousness, when I dated atheists as a Christian, it was lonely at times to not be able up share all of me with another. I wouldn't want to put someone through it nor do I want to deal with it. Love doesn't always conquer all. Sad

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12-08-2014, 01:12 PM (This post was last modified: 12-08-2014 05:09 PM by Wicked Clown.)
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
(12-08-2014 01:09 PM)Deidre32 Wrote:  Hmmm. If he's hot...maybe Big Grin

In all seriousness, when I dated atheists as a Christian, it was lonely at times to not be able up share all of me with another. I wouldn't want to put someone through it nor do I want to deal with it. Love doesn't always conquer all. Sad

sounds like you were maybe a devout theist? I'm a more one of those opposites attract kind of people. there's something just loveable and interesting about the mysterious and the unknown.

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12-08-2014, 01:13 PM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
(12-08-2014 01:09 PM)Deidre32 Wrote:  Hmmm. If he's hot...maybe Big Grin

In all seriousness, when I dated atheists as a Christian, it was lonely at times to not be able up share all of me with another. I wouldn't want to put someone through it nor do I want to deal with it. Love doesn't always conquer all. Sad

I'm with you on this one Deidre.
I dated a christian. I was very open from the start and so was he. We tried not to let it be a problem but we would have arguments and disagreements off and on and when we did they werent great. I think the last straw was him telling me he'd be worried about our children's souls if we ever had any. Relationship ended not long after that.

I will never ever make that mistake again. (Thankfully I found a great atheist guy) Smile
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12-08-2014, 04:49 PM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
Hmmmm. Not just one. Dodgy

Religiosity.
Dishonesty.
Stupidity.
Obesity.

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12-08-2014, 05:00 PM (This post was last modified: 12-08-2014 05:03 PM by Wicked Clown.)
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
I'm okay with the obesity if it is not caused by gluttony or lack of self control.

some fat people are so fun and I couldn't picture them thin. it wouldn't match their character.
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12-08-2014, 09:12 PM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
I've only had what I'd classify as 2 long term relationships, my ex and my husband. But hey, I'm 25, and I've been with my husband for 5 years, so not bad.

My deal breakers were:

Difference of family opinions. I always wanted to get married. Kids I was eh about until we had our son. Now I've got wicked baby rabies.

Drugs. I've never been a fan. My ex smoked weed like it was his job. All day, every day. We tried to compromise, but he always did what he wanted anyway. So now my personal views on them are pretty severe when it comes to my family.

Porn. And let me clarify before everyone jumps on my shit Wink The way I see it, I'm always ready and more than willing. I'm super open about things, and my husband could honestly bring almost anything to me and I'd be ok with trying it, except inviting anyone else into the marriage. I'm a jealous bitch. If your partner is the same way, personally, I see no reason to need porn. Even now, I'm on bed rest with this pregnancy. Husband doesn't partake in porn, but if he did right now, I wouldn't blame him. He gets blowies whenever he wants, but come on, pelvic rest? It sucks.

Infidelity. It is what it is. And it isn't cool.

Obviously these are all simply my opinions. I don't judge anyone who chooses to smoke or have threesomes lol. Do what you do!

Thankfully husband shares the same opinions, which helps a lot. Keeps our arguements to a minimum and they're typically about finances or what to watch on Netflix Smile
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12-08-2014, 10:21 PM
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Hi Mrsfarrow Smile

I had a friend who was on pelvic rest ...I'm sorry ...I remember her venting to me about it. **hugs

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13-08-2014, 10:44 AM
RE: What's your deal breaker in relationships?
I'm with Deidre and Hobbitgirl, I'm extremely hesitant to date anyone with the religious baggage. I can make it work, have lots in the past, but who wants to have this huge gulf between you? Not to sound jaded or cynical but the notion that "love conquers all" is a fairytale I got over at a young age. "Love" does not conquer anything, commitment and hard work is what keeps people together. I've seen love brought down by as little as disagreements over music preference.

Another deal breaker is crazy: never stick your dick in crazy and never let crazy stick it's dick in you. That's solid advice, I learned from trial and error haha
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