When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
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15-09-2014, 06:46 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 04:13 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 03:38 PM)Revenant77x Wrote:  That should and does factor into the perception of who is at fault when an altercation becomes physical. I'm all for don't hit anyone (under all but a few circumstances not really worth debating) but there seems to be some serious aversion to calling a spade a spade when it comes to violence against women.


The conversation on abuse against women becomes so diluted that after awhile we're not talking about it any more.
Which is why it still gets excused and shoved under a rug
Actually it was not my intent for it to be about abuse. I know with the news right now it was easy for it to go down that path. Like I said I did not start it off on a good tone so that did not help either.
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15-09-2014, 06:58 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 06:46 PM)wazzel Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 04:13 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  The conversation on abuse against women becomes so diluted that after awhile we're not talking about it any more.
Which is why it still gets excused and shoved under a rug
Actually it was not my intent for it to be about abuse. I know with the news right now it was easy for it to go down that path. Like I said I did not start it off on a good tone so that did not help either.

I honestly don't think there is a tone that could make it go any other way.

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15-09-2014, 08:26 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
I think it's ok for a man to hit a woman in self defense. I don't know why the treatment would be different.

It's worth noting that maybe it's not the best idea for the man to hit the woman back, because if she is of a vindictive nature she could cry domestic abuse and get the guy arrested.
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15-09-2014, 09:46 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 08:26 PM)Li_Holodomer Wrote:  I think it's ok for a man to hit a woman in self defense. I don't know why the treatment would be different.

It's worth noting that maybe it's not the best idea for the man to hit the woman back, because if she is of a vindictive nature she could cry domestic abuse and get the guy arrested.

Maybe because him hitting her IS domestic abuse.


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15-09-2014, 10:33 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 09:46 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 08:26 PM)Li_Holodomer Wrote:  I think it's ok for a man to hit a woman in self defense. I don't know why the treatment would be different.

It's worth noting that maybe it's not the best idea for the man to hit the woman back, because if she is of a vindictive nature she could cry domestic abuse and get the guy arrested.

Maybe because him hitting her IS domestic abuse.


Sometimes. .... I just don't know WTAF is going on in the world

I know, right?

You shouldn't hit her because it would be domestic abuse.

Likewise you shouldn't fuck your girlfriend or wife while she's either asleep or too drunk, not because she might be of a "vindictive nature" and cry rape, but because having sex without explicit and informed consent is rape.

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15-09-2014, 10:43 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 10:33 PM)EvolutionKills Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 09:46 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  Maybe because him hitting her IS domestic abuse.


Sometimes. .... I just don't know WTAF is going on in the world

I know, right?

You shouldn't hit her because it would be domestic abuse.

Likewise you shouldn't fuck your girlfriend or wife while she's either asleep or too drunk, not because she might be of a "vindictive nature" and cry rape, but because having sex without explicit and informed consent is rape.

Right?
The definitions get blurred for all the wrong reasons sometimes.

*Sigh*

FCUK!!!!!

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15-09-2014, 10:49 PM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 10:43 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  FCUK!!!!!

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16-09-2014, 05:45 AM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 09:46 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 08:26 PM)Li_Holodomer Wrote:  I think it's ok for a man to hit a woman in self defense. I don't know why the treatment would be different.

It's worth noting that maybe it's not the best idea for the man to hit the woman back, because if she is of a vindictive nature she could cry domestic abuse and get the guy arrested.

Maybe because him hitting her IS domestic abuse.


Sometimes. .... I just don't know WTAF is going on in the world

Nope, not always. Sometimes it is self defense.

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16-09-2014, 06:24 AM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(15-09-2014 06:58 PM)Revenant77x Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 06:46 PM)wazzel Wrote:  Actually it was not my intent for it to be about abuse. I know with the news right now it was easy for it to go down that path. Like I said I did not start it off on a good tone so that did not help either.

I honestly don't think there is a tone that could make it go any other way.

It is a touchy subject, doubt there was anyway around it being that.
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16-09-2014, 08:50 AM
RE: When is it OK for a man to hit a woman?
(16-09-2014 05:45 AM)Chas Wrote:  
(15-09-2014 09:46 PM)WitchSabrina Wrote:  Maybe because him hitting her IS domestic abuse.


Sometimes. .... I just don't know WTAF is going on in the world

Nope, not always. Sometimes it is self defense.

Indeed.

If someone assaults you, then you are entitled to defend yourself. In virtually every jurisdiction on the planet.

That allowance goes only as far as preventing further harm to yourself. A disproportionate response is also assault.

I wouldn't have thought it complicated.

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