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05-04-2017, 08:15 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 07:58 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  
(05-04-2017 07:37 AM)Fatbaldhobbit Wrote:  Why are all the others fictitious? Why is your god real?
I just know they are.

No. You believe they are. There is a very big difference.

There are people on the other side of the planet, who believe in a different god.
Their faith is so strong, that they are willing to kill themselves and you, for their god.

They know that you are wrong.
They know that they are going to heaven.
They know that you are going to hell.


I say that you are all wrong, and that you only believe.


You don't know anything unless it can be proven with testable, repeatable, verifiable evidence.

How can you distinguish faith from gullibility?

Why is faith a virtue?

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05-04-2017, 08:16 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 08:06 AM)Dom Wrote:  
(05-04-2017 08:04 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  Years ago when I first starting seeing a therapist for anxiety (no fear of hell at this time), I remember talking and I said "I guess I'm just afraid of dying." The therapist said "I've been waiting for you to say this for weeks." I believe there might be something here for me to talk to in my next therapy session.

My therapist tells me it is because I feel I need to be punished and this is due to my upbringing. Of course I am unsure and believe it's just a sugar coated way of excusing me as a "bad person deserving of punishment".

So, who told you that you are a bad person who needs punishment?
It is a mindset I formed over the years of living with a Mother that was Bi-polar (though never diagnosed myself and other therapists believe this). All the screaming and anger probably took its toll

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05-04-2017, 08:22 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 08:16 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  
(05-04-2017 08:06 AM)Dom Wrote:  So, who told you that you are a bad person who needs punishment?
It is a mindset I formed over the years of living with a Mother that was Bi-polar (though never diagnosed myself and other therapists believe this). All the screaming and anger probably took its toll

Do you think that without the threat of hell you would be raping and pillaging? What horrible things would you inflict on humanity without the fear of punishment?

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05-04-2017, 08:37 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 05:40 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  Fear is the key. Not sure if anyone expected that answer, but it's true. For the most part fear is the key. I mean, it's not just fear, I do have a belief it is true. But here's the situation:

I have major issues with Christianity, from slavery, brutality, misogynistic practices, the need for a human sacrifice, the threat of an eternal agonising afterlife for some, the need for any of this. But I am scared of being wrong. I have a real phobia about going to hell. I feel trapped and as I see it, there are only two ways out for me.

1. To be convinced there is no hell (not possible – as we cannot say either way for sure)

2. To, not believe. All I will say is that I have major doubts. I'm having a real crisis of faith.

We do know that Christianity is an offshoot of Judaism, and we can know through studying Judaism that hell, eternal damnation, and salvation are not Jewish concepts. They were introduced to Christianity at a later date from a pagan religion.

So I’ll ask you, do you associate Christianity as having more in common with Judaism or ancient Roman paganism? Which one do you believe was the “true” religion until the point of Jesus’s supposed death? When you answer that, you can determine if there is just cause for the Christians to have included the doctrine on eternal damnation. If you decide that Christianity has more in common with Judaism, I might be able to help you better understand what Christianity originally taught when it was still a Jewish religion... when Jesus was the lead figure and not Paul.

If for whatever reason we don’t get the chance to further discuss this, I wish you the best of luck in your quest for truth.
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05-04-2017, 08:41 AM
RE: Why I Believe
Of all the religions in the world I actually find Christianity to be the most vile and disgusting. It's a form of extortion with a lot of sado masochism throw in for good measure.

First the person, usually a child, is told they are a bad, sinful, horrible person. Over time they are convinced that, yes indeed, they are miserable, wicked and unworthy. Then after having been completely convinced that they are majorly full of sin, Christianity then hands out the antidote in the form of Jesus and if the person doesn't believe in Jesus they will burn in hell forever because they are truly wicked.

There is no free choice in the matter. A free choice would be to accept Jesus or not accept Jesus without retribution but there are consequences attached to the choice. When consequences are attached to a choice it becomes coercion and that is extortion.

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05-04-2017, 08:41 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 08:37 AM)Aliza Wrote:  
(05-04-2017 05:40 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  Fear is the key. Not sure if anyone expected that answer, but it's true. For the most part fear is the key. I mean, it's not just fear, I do have a belief it is true. But here's the situation:

I have major issues with Christianity, from slavery, brutality, misogynistic practices, the need for a human sacrifice, the threat of an eternal agonising afterlife for some, the need for any of this. But I am scared of being wrong. I have a real phobia about going to hell. I feel trapped and as I see it, there are only two ways out for me.

1. To be convinced there is no hell (not possible – as we cannot say either way for sure)

2. To, not believe. All I will say is that I have major doubts. I'm having a real crisis of faith.

We do know that Christianity is an offshoot of Judaism, and we can know through studying Judaism that hell, eternal damnation, and salvation are not Jewish concepts. They were introduced to Christianity at a later date from a pagan religion.

So I’ll ask you, do you associate Christianity as having more in common with Judaism or ancient Roman paganism? Which one do you believe was the “true” religion until the point of Jesus’s supposed death? When you answer that, you can determine if there is just cause for the Christians to have included the doctrine on eternal damnation. If you decide that Christianity has more in common with Judaism, I might be able to help you better understand what Christianity originally taught when it was still a Jewish religion... when Jesus was the lead figure and not Paul.

If for whatever reason we don’t get the chance to further discuss this, I wish you the best of luck in your quest for truth.
Thank you

I've never thought about the question before, but I believe Christianity has more in common with Judaism and I know the Old Testament doesn't speak of a firey burning hell, not at least until they Israelites (?) came out of Babylon.

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05-04-2017, 08:43 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 08:41 AM)dancefortwo Wrote:  Of all the religions in the world I actually find Christianity to be the most vile and disgusting. It's a form of extortion with a lot of sado masochism throw in for good measure.

First the person, usually a child, is told they are a bad, sinful, horrible person. Over time they are convinced that, yes indeed, they are miserable, wicked and unworthy. Then after having been completely convinced that they are majorly full of sin, Christianity then hands out the antidote in the form of Jesus and if the person doesn't believe in Jesus they will burn in hell forever because they are truly wicked.

There is no free choice in the matter. A free choice would be to accept Jesus or not accept Jesus without retribution but there are consequences attached to the choice. When consequences are attached to a choice it becomes coercion and that is extortion.
I've often pondered the nature of the choice we have and it never makes sense to me.

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05-04-2017, 08:50 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 08:41 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  
(05-04-2017 08:37 AM)Aliza Wrote:  We do know that Christianity is an offshoot of Judaism, and we can know through studying Judaism that hell, eternal damnation, and salvation are not Jewish concepts. They were introduced to Christianity at a later date from a pagan religion.

So I’ll ask you, do you associate Christianity as having more in common with Judaism or ancient Roman paganism? Which one do you believe was the “true” religion until the point of Jesus’s supposed death? When you answer that, you can determine if there is just cause for the Christians to have included the doctrine on eternal damnation. If you decide that Christianity has more in common with Judaism, I might be able to help you better understand what Christianity originally taught when it was still a Jewish religion... when Jesus was the lead figure and not Paul.

If for whatever reason we don’t get the chance to further discuss this, I wish you the best of luck in your quest for truth.
Thank you

I've never thought about the question before, but I believe Christianity has more in common with Judaism and I know the Old Testament doesn't speak of a firey burning hell, not at least until they Israelites (?) came out of Babylon.

There is no firey burning hell in Judaism, period. If you think your OT says people will burn in hell for all eternity, then without having examined the text and the context, I suspect that it's been mistranslated or misunderstood.
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05-04-2017, 09:22 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 08:16 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  It is a mindset I formed over the years of living with a Mother that was Bi-polar (though never diagnosed myself and other therapists believe this). All the screaming and anger probably took its toll
If there was lots of screaming and anger, she might have had borderline personality disorder (BPD) instead of or in addition to bipolar. I'm surprised no one has considered this possibility. People with BPD wax hot and cold, and alternately idolize and demonize you. It is easy for an armchair diagnosis to overlook it or confuse it with bipolar.

Not that it really matters, your mother was toxic, that's the bottom line.
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05-04-2017, 09:35 AM
RE: Why I Believe
(05-04-2017 09:22 AM)mordant Wrote:  
(05-04-2017 08:16 AM)SeaJay Wrote:  It is a mindset I formed over the years of living with a Mother that was Bi-polar (though never diagnosed myself and other therapists believe this). All the screaming and anger probably took its toll
If there was lots of screaming and anger, she might have had borderline personality disorder (BPD) instead of or in addition to bipolar. I'm surprised no one has considered this possibility. People with BPD wax hot and cold, and alternately idolize and demonize you. It is easy for an armchair diagnosis to overlook it or confuse it with bipolar.

Not that it really matters, your mother was toxic, that's the bottom line.
Well I have been diagnosed with BPD so I wouldn't be surprised if she had it too. She is dead now though so no way of knowing for sure.

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