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29-01-2017, 02:45 AM
RE: Why did'nt I have more interaction with her
Very sorry for your loss Sad.

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29-01-2017, 02:48 AM
RE: Why did'nt I have more interaction with her
My sincere condolences for your loss. I am currently in a very similar situation. Keep your head up! PM me if you need to talk. Hug

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29-01-2017, 07:49 AM
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I'm really sorry for your loss, my dad died in June and I miss him every day I'm sending you a man hug from across the pondHug
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29-01-2017, 07:50 AM
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A hug for you too deesse Hug
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29-01-2017, 08:08 AM
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(29-01-2017 07:50 AM)adey67 Wrote:  A hug for you too deesse Hug
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29-01-2017, 08:28 AM
RE: Why did'nt I have more interaction with her
Sorry for your loss. Hug

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29-01-2017, 10:54 AM
RE: Why did'nt I have more interaction with her
(28-01-2017 04:37 PM)Manic Wrote:  My wonderful beautiful funny and caring sister has died.
We were three years apart, but worlds apart, we lived within 5 miles of each other but it may have well been a million miles.
I had the chance to see her often but didn't.
What the hell was I thinking?
My little world took over, I would give anything at this moment to see her and tell her that I love her. I'm heartbroken.
My sincere condolences.

Relationships are two-way. If she was not making overtures to you, then you may be overestimating her responsiveness in the theoretical situation where you had reached out to her; or you may be overestimating how much you still had in common, and so forth. Often, this dictum applies: "things are the way they are because they got that way".

If you feel you let her down, it's of course possible that you did, but then you have to simply let it go and forgive yourself and resolve to do better with any remaining loved ones / friends. I have lost four close family members in the past two decades, counting only the ones who died of other than natural causes, and I have learned from this, to always keep short accounts and never leave anything unsaid or undone. The rational response to this is to learn from it, change, and carry on. Your sister would, I'm sure, approve of that.

You aren't the first person, and won't be the last, to get "caught up" in everyday existence. It's entirely forgivable and understandable and, most importantly, human. You'll do better next time.
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29-01-2017, 01:01 PM
RE: Why did'nt I have more interaction with her
(28-01-2017 04:37 PM)Manic Wrote:  My wonderful beautiful funny and caring sister has died.
We were three years apart, but worlds apart, we lived within 5 miles of each other but it may have well been a million miles.
I had the chance to see her often but didn't.
What the hell was I thinking?
My little world took over, I would give anything at this moment to see her and tell her that I love her. I'm heartbroken.

I'm sorry. This song is about losing a sibling, most beautiful song I know, but also the saddest.



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30-01-2017, 12:08 AM
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Jesus, that's really sad. I'm sorry for you. I hope the funeral and everything else related go well.

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30-01-2017, 09:53 AM
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I've been away for a couple of days and so I'm a bit late to this.

Anyway...

I'm very, very sorry for your loss. If I lost my sister I'd be devastated.
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