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04-09-2015, 05:23 PM
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(04-09-2015 01:23 PM)ELK12695 Wrote:  
(02-09-2015 11:26 PM)Nurse Wrote:  I went with a classic, sophisticated dress. I had a feeling he'd be keeping me at arm's length, and I was right. Still looked fabulous, I could tell he appreciated it, and when he's ready he will be so far in the friend zone at that point he's not coming back from it. Drinking Beverage

Sooo... why don't you just tell this guy you're not interested in him romantically? Infact, why are you "going out" with him if you're just gonna friendzone him? If you want him as a friend, then this is a horrible way to make friends. If you were really interested in a guy and he played you like you're playing this guy, would you have liked it?





Unless he's a dick though. Then it's an eye for an eye.

I said that in more of a vent than anything, because if I'm not careful I'm going to end up hurt. I haven't friend zoned him - I've known him for about 8 years, actually. We met up a little over a month ago after learning we were both in the same city. He's stringing me along while his head is fucked up over his ex. I ended up in bed with him (believe it or not I wasn't intending for that to happen that night - I'm not near as flirtatious in person, and I have really high standards...which he actually meets...and he made each of the moves that night) and it wasn't until the next time we went out that he let me know that his ex, who I thought was long distance, was a live in girlfriend.

I really enjoy his company, as in its nothing for us to talk for 8 hours at a time. He tells me after that he's not interested in romance *right now* and then still invites me out to a nice dinner and picks up the check when he knows I'd split it. He walks me to my car despite us parking in separate parking lots, he opens the door, he stays on the outside of the sidewalk... There's just...it's hard to explain. He gives the impression that he regrets things getting physical, despite saying shit like "where have you been the past ten years," and he's still calling me up. I'm rambling.

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04-09-2015, 05:33 PM
RE: Your day explained in a GIF
(04-09-2015 05:23 PM)Nurse Wrote:  
(04-09-2015 01:23 PM)ELK12695 Wrote:  Sooo... why don't you just tell this guy you're not interested in him romantically? Infact, why are you "going out" with him if you're just gonna friendzone him? If you want him as a friend, then this is a horrible way to make friends. If you were really interested in a guy and he played you like you're playing this guy, would you have liked it?





Unless he's a dick though. Then it's an eye for an eye.

I said that in more of a vent than anything, because if I'm not careful I'm going to end up hurt. I haven't friend zoned him - I've known him for about 8 years, actually. We met up a little over a month ago after learning we were both in the same city. He's stringing me along while his head is fucked up over his ex. I ended up in bed with him (believe it or not I wasn't intending for that to happen that night - I'm not near as flirtatious in person, and I have really high standards...which he actually meets...and he made each of the moves that night) and it wasn't until the next time we went out that he let me know that his ex, who I thought was long distance, was a live in girlfriend.

I really enjoy his company, as in its nothing for us to talk for 8 hours at a time. He tells me after that he's not interested in romance *right now* and then still invites me out to a nice dinner and picks up the check when he knows I'd split it. He walks me to my car despite us parking in separate parking lots, he opens the door, he stays on the outside of the sidewalk... There's just...it's hard to explain. He gives the impression that he regrets things getting physical, despite saying shit like "where have you been the past ten years," and he's still calling me up. I'm rambling.

Rev told me I hadn't heard the whole story around the situation (nothing more, whatever details are safe with him), so I apologize for pointing fingers before all the facts are in. The thing is I don't get friendzoning; you're either useful to me as a friend or girlfriend, or you're not. That's pretty much it.

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07-09-2015, 11:33 PM
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08-09-2015, 12:34 PM
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08-09-2015, 12:39 PM
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(08-09-2015 12:34 PM)Worom Wrote:  [Image: live_on_this_planet_futurama.gif]

Every single day.

Excuse me, I'm making perfect sense. You're just not keeping up.

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08-09-2015, 12:57 PM
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(08-09-2015 12:34 PM)Worom Wrote:  [Image: live_on_this_planet_futurama.gif]

Every single day.

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08-09-2015, 01:01 PM
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08-09-2015, 08:30 PM
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10-09-2015, 04:50 PM
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10-09-2015, 04:52 PM
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