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03-12-2015, 10:18 AM
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OMG that's horrible. It's unbelievable what people will do to others. It has to be especially hard when you were hoping you brother was on your side. Geeze, I'm sorry.

You have all my sympathies.

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03-12-2015, 10:25 AM
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Great Googlei Mooglei! Cold blooded.

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03-12-2015, 11:54 AM
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... I don't have words. I'm pretty easy going, but this makes my violence gland flare up. I'm so sorry. Hug

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03-12-2015, 12:15 PM
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(03-12-2015 08:49 AM)purpledaisies Wrote:  As some know my family has mostly disowned me because my mother is a liar. Anyway I havent spoken to them or attempted to contact anyone after mom called the police on me. However I had hopes about my brother sadly those are crushed.

My brother text me to let me know my aunt had died and told me when the funeral was and the time. I called him to confirm it. We went and no one was there total empty. So I called him and he said it was the day before. I called him on it because I had called him that day to confirm the date and time which was after the funeral and he told me it the the next day. So I was told the after on purpose. Can this please just stop?! I don't get it I have left them all alone with no contact at all just like they wanted but then this??? Feeling very much like salt being dumped in my wounds.

We are to assume that they are Christians and you are not and that is the basis of the problem?
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03-12-2015, 12:48 PM
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(03-12-2015 09:29 AM)purpledaisies Wrote:  Thanks everyone. I was kinda stunned yesterday when this happened. I really thought out of everyone my brother wouldn't do this. I expect it from the others just not him. I just don't know how more I can take. Especially since I walked away.

As some others here have had to learn as we go...sometimes you just have to choose your own family. Often they are closer than the families we are born into. I hope you are finding support and comfort here, and then extending that support amongst new friends who lack a belief in the supernatural.

Hang in there. I suspect you'd be surprised how much more you can take. Thumbsup

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03-12-2015, 09:52 PM
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(03-12-2015 12:15 PM)DerFish Wrote:  
(03-12-2015 08:49 AM)purpledaisies Wrote:  As some know my family has mostly disowned me because my mother is a liar. Anyway I havent spoken to them or attempted to contact anyone after mom called the police on me. However I had hopes about my brother sadly those are crushed.

My brother text me to let me know my aunt had died and told me when the funeral was and the time. I called him to confirm it. We went and no one was there total empty. So I called him and he said it was the day before. I called him on it because I had called him that day to confirm the date and time which was after the funeral and he told me it the the next day. So I was told the after on purpose. Can this please just stop?! I don't get it I have left them all alone with no contact at all just like they wanted but then this??? Feeling very much like salt being dumped in my wounds.

We are to assume that they are Christians and you are not and that is the basis of the problem?

No my mother is bat shit crazy! And she lied to me about who my dad is for almost 40 years . she has it in her head that I hate her and I've been spreading loes about her after she sent me a bunch of nasty texts. I did respond but every time I asked her if she loves me and ever wanted me she would tell me 'I'll pray for you' and 'fine a new mom'.

Then she accused me of making up all the texts she sent, brought in my mil then called me a whore and my husband is my pimp. Then called the police on me for harassment. So yea I walked away!
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04-12-2015, 07:44 AM
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(03-12-2015 09:52 PM)purpledaisies Wrote:  
(03-12-2015 12:15 PM)DerFish Wrote:  We are to assume that they are Christians and you are not and that is the basis of the problem?

No my mother is bat shit crazy! And she lied to me about who my dad is for almost 40 years . she has it in her head that I hate her and I've been spreading loes about her after she sent me a bunch of nasty texts. I did respond but every time I asked her if she loves me and ever wanted me she would tell me 'I'll pray for you' and 'fine a new mom'.

Then she accused me of making up all the texts she sent, brought in my mil then called me a whore and my husband is my pimp. Then called the police on me for harassment. So yea I walked away!

Sorry, but your mother is a gigantic failure as a mother.

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04-12-2015, 08:37 AM
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This is when you stop letting them have this kind of power over you're feelings and drop them completely.

Screw that.
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04-12-2015, 09:39 AM
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Wow...just...wow...

How very immature and cruel. How could you even do that to a person, let alone your own son?!

Don't ever talk to them again. Don't give them the chance to do it again.

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04-12-2015, 11:36 AM
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There's nothing lower than deliberately preventing someone from attending a relative's funeral, regardless of how tenuous the family connections are. And unfortunately, this sort of puerile behaviour can never be undone.

Hang in there mate. Hug

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