venting about my fight with my sister
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05-11-2014, 02:48 PM
RE: venting about my fight with my sister
(05-11-2014 02:33 PM)dancefortwo Wrote:  
(05-11-2014 01:54 PM)LadyWallFlower Wrote:  

A man looking at porn is like a man masturbating. It's just something they do, like breathing.

I've been married 25 years and my husband looks at porn and did even when we were engaged. Doesn't bother me in the least. If your sister is all in a twist over her husband looking at porn then she's in for a very difficult marriage.

My sister was talking to me like it probably really does bothers me deep down and I'm just a weak wife who doesn't want to confront her husband. Dodgy I tried to explain to her that the real issue is being secure in herself and her relationship, but she wants to point fingers at her husband. She's completely unwilling to even compromise or explore.

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05-11-2014, 02:59 PM
RE: venting about my fight with my sister
(05-11-2014 02:40 PM)Bows and Arrows Wrote:  oh sweetie....porn is just the tip of the iceberg, loads of fun out there if you are adventurous. Cool

As long as you and your husband are on the same page, its no one else business and there isnt a right or wrong, enjoy life.

Maybe sister is worried God will see her expressing herself in ways she only fantasizes about ?

I don't think it actually has anything to do with religion. I think she's using religion to validate her insecurities.
And, I don't know...I may get more adventurous one day. Lol but as a fairly new atheist and being raised as a prude, porn feels like a good start at least. Angel

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