Shout Box
» Larai19 - 17-04-14 12:31 -- Yes.
» GenesisNemesis - 17-04-13 21:30 -- best part of this time of year is the fruit
» JesseB - 17-04-13 19:33 -- Whoah sounds fun!
» Gwaithmir - 17-04-13 19:08 -- Great! I just got back from a day's visit with a close friend. We went out for burgers and spent the day watching DVD's. Smile
» JesseB - 17-04-13 18:11 -- Hey Gwaithmir! o/ How are you today?
» JesseB - 17-04-12 17:59 -- and some brot? sausages.... for later
» JesseB - 17-04-12 17:59 -- I made cheezeburger
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 17:40 -- Maybe. Smile But you should at least eat once a day...
» JesseB - 17-04-12 16:48 -- I'm trying to work up the motivation. I think I'll shower first, then go cook something, maybe that'll help clear my head.
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 16:39 -- you should eat dude.
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:48 -- On second though... I don't think I feel like eating today.
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:41 -- That sounds like a good idea. I should fire up the grill and make the last of the burgers
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 15:35 -- I'll be right back, I'm going to go make some food..
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:30 -- Smile
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 15:19 -- Be anticipated! Big Grin That's always good.
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:15 -- well... its 5 am where she is right now... so few more hours
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 15:15 -- That's really good dude! Big Grin That's always a good sign. When are you able to talk to her again?
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:13 -- oh she sends me pictures too of stitch (her favorite character), and like things she finds in her day n stuff. And like last night we did face time for a bit before she started work, like that really made me happy. Felt like my heart was filling up and heavy, but in a good way just overwhelmed with happiness. That's kinda how I feel every time she sends me a text
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:12 -- Big Grin
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 15:06 -- That's not that bad conversation wise. Big Grin
» JesseB - 17-04-12 15:04 -- Well I talk about my day/life, send lots of pictures of like the mountains n stuff especially when I go on walks, pictures of Alex and Kitty cat, we talk about foooood I listen to her vent about her co workers, we talk about what we want to do, we talk about news things that happen, and sometimes we talk about the weather (especially when I get snowed on)
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 15:02 -- What do you guys usually talk about?
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:57 -- You're prolly right
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:57 -- That might be another thing you guys need to talk about... :/
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:57 -- She is pretty big on math and science so .... maybe that's why, my blog is mostly math and science and why they are important
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:56 -- How do I put it, initially she was bothered, but after I showed her my blogs she hasn't brought it up since
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:55 -- Since we both want a child religion is a big consideration if things get real serious.
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:55 -- Yes, she's not religious... but I get the feeling she's got some deeply held buddist feelings she holds inside. Like she was ok with me being an Atheist but she seemed a little bothered about my talking about Atheism online. But she's seen my blogs n stuff and hasn't made a big deal out of it so.... idk
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:53 -- Does she know you're an atheist?
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:53 -- I mean I really like her when she says stuff like this >.> After all pretty much every other girl I've dated, and my ex wife expected me to kill myself so they could have things, WHILE they fucked everyone they could while I was at work... I'm to the point I'd rather be a fucking house wife and let her do all the fucking work. At least I won't cheat, though she still will, BUT then I wouldn't be killing myself on dangerous job sites racking up injuries while she's cheating.
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:53 -- That's thoughtful. Smile
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:51 -- She told me "simple life is better" and "You can't take it with you when you die"
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:50 -- Not weird but definitely good. Smile
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:48 -- I wasn't in any hurry cause I'm poor as fuck. I have been open and honest about being poor as fuck lol, yet she still talks to me. Weird eh?
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:48 -- Yea, that's kinda where we've been. The logistics part came into play a bit over a month ago when she suddenly texted "I want to see you"
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:47 -- Be friends, be best friends. Smile That's how it works the best. Talk about life, what you feel, things you want without the logistics. Logistics are super important to see if they correlate with values but you can't have an awesome relationship without companionship.
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:45 -- I'll try that
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:44 -- Maybe you two should talk more about the relationship, like what you both want, talk about how you feel being stood up, etc. It'll help with everything. Smile
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:44 -- I think we started talking right before last christmas
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:41 -- we've been talking for about 4 months now? we've never met irl cause visa and travel cost issues.
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:40 -- How long have you guys been seeing each other?
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:38 -- not specifically having a child with me, just her general values on what she wants in life, which lines up with what I think too
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:37 -- Not really, more like "I want to see you" details about.... logistics.... saving money, plans on where to meet in a year once we both have enough money. She's an accountant, she does want to do a 50/50 work/child raising thing where she commits to contributing financially and to childraising
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:36 -- Yea, its a toughie. I really do like her, I mean if she's being honest about who she is
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:36 -- Have you guys talked about your relationship at all. Just the relationship?
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:35 -- :/
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:33 -- Actually I'm kinda worried about that.... I'm pretty experienced and sort of a kinky fuck... I'm concerned when I do see her I might do something that seems safe, vanilla, and normal that might freak her out... she seems to be kinda one of those sheltered types....
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:29 -- Although we have a very... professional.... kind of relationship.... She doesn't seem interested much in romance, and frankly the thing that we seem to agree the most on are issues of cheating, child raising, and common core values... I mean, I'm not super fussed one way another if she's sincere, but it is odd to me
» JesseB - 17-04-12 14:27 -- Yup
» Larai19 - 17-04-12 14:26 -- That's great! Did you reciprocate?